Nhau dzechokwadi kubva kuvakuru Vana veAdha
Apo vana vanokura mumusha unodhakwa uye kunowanzoramba kunenge kwakapoteredza, vangava nekutenda kukuru kwezvinhu sezvakakura. Nhema, kuchengeta zvakavanzika, uye zvipikirwa zvakaputsika zvose zvinowedzera kutumira shoko kune vana vanovimba vanogona kuvasvikira.
Vakawanda vanokura kuva vanhu vakuru kusakwanisa kuvimba nemunhu wose, izvo zvinokanganisa rudo rwavo, ruzivo uye hukama hwemweya nevamwe.
Vakanyadziswa kakawanda nemubereki ane doro kuti vanyatsozvivimba zvizere.
Kutenda nyaya ndeimwe yezvinhu zvakajairika izvo vana vakawanda vakuru vezvinodhakwa vanogovera. Kunyange zvazvo zviito izvi zvakajairika kuvana vakuru vedhakwa, vanogonawo kuitika nekuda kweimwe dambudziko remhuri uye nyaya dzekusimudzira.
Vashanyi vakapindura mubvunzo uyu unoti " Unonzwa Sei Kukura Newe Mubereki Anodhaka Wakuchinja? " Nokuudza nyaya dzavo pamusoro pezvinhu zvekutenda pasi apa:
Hazvizoiti Kutora
Ndinoda kuvimba nevanhu asi kune izwi shoma mushure memusoro wangu unondinyevera kuti ndigare ndakachengeteka. Zviri nani kuti ndive ndoga pane kuti ndizvichengetedze kunyange kunyange mukana wokuti mumwe munhu angandishora nemanzwiro akaita saamai vangu. - Pufflet
Akaoma mutezo Emotionally
Ndinotya kuvimba nomumwe munhu, ndinonzwa kuora mwoyo mupfungwa. Ndiri vakadzi vane makore makumi maviri nemazana mana vasina kumbove neukama hwakanaka nemurume. Ndinonzwa ndiri ndoga uye kuti hupenyu hwangu hwave hutsva hwakakwana uye huwandu hwenguva. Ndinoshuva mumwe munhu kuti andidane, asi handikwanisi kurega munhu akavhara zvakakwana kuda. Iniwo ini ndiri kugadzirisa, asi handikwanisi kugadzirisa ini. Ndine zvinhu zvakakanganisika, handigone kurarama hupenyu hwandinoona vamwe vachirarama, vasingakwanisi kuda kana kuvimba nemumwe munhu. - Git It Girl
Ndinovimba Nayo
Migumisiro yehuduku hwangu yave yakawanda uye inotyisa. Ndiri nemakore makumi maviri nemaviri uye ndakanga ndiine ukama humwe hurefu kwenguva refu hwakanga husina basa. Ndine kutya kukuru kwehukama hwepedyo uye handitendi munhu. Ini ndangobva ndave ndisina kurega muupenyu hwangu. - LW
Munhu wose Anondirega Ndichire
Ndine nyaya dzakasimba dzekutendeseka, ndinotenda kuti munhu wose achandisiya, asi chaizvoizvo hazvisi izvo zvandinokodzera. - Orla
Wakave Wakabatwa Here?
Iwe une dambudziko rekuvimba nomumwe munhu here? Wakave wakakanganiswa mune dzimwe nzira nekukura nekudhakwa mumba here? Iwe unogona kuda kutora mibvunzo iyi kuti uwane dzimwe nzira dzaungangodaro dzave wakabatwa usina kuzviziva.
Vakawanda vana vakuru vezvinwiwa vanoona zvakaoma kuvimba vakawana rubatsiro kuburikidza kuva nhengo dzeAl-Anon Family Groups kana boka rekutsigira Group Adult of Alcoholics .
Dzokera ku: Migumisiro Yokukura neAdhakwa
Sources:
Janet G. Woititz, "Zviitiko 13 zveVana Vakuru," The Awareness Center. Yakasvika muna November 2010.
Vakwegura Vana veAlcoholics World Service Organization, "The Laundry List - 14 Zviratidzo zveMwana Mukuru weAdha," (Yakapiwa na Tony A., 1978). Yakasvika muna November 2010.