Therapy uye dzidzo inogona kubatsira
Apo vana vanofamba kubva pamatokari emotokari vasina kuvhiringidzika, vabereki vanozviona sevane hanya asi vangave vasina hanya nemigumisiro yepfungwa dzemakumbo emotokari, zvakadai sekuora mwoyo. Kungofanana nezvakakonzerwa nengozi yemotokari inogona kugara kwenguva refu, saizvozvowo zvinogona kufungwa. Zvakasikwa kuti mwana atore nguva kuti aonekwe zvakare kumashure mushure mechiitiko ichocho, asi kuora mwoyo mushure mokunge pangozi yemotokari ingakwanisa kune vamwe.
Kuziva nzira dzekudzivirira kuora mwoyo kwevana vari kutevera njodzi dzomotokari kunogona kupa vabereki nyaradzo iyo vari kuita zvose zvavanogona.
Njodzi dzemotokari Dzinoshungurudza Vana
Imwe tsvakurudzo yakaratidza kuti njodzi yemotokari inogona kunyanya kushungurudza vana. Inenge 15 kusvika ku25 muzana yevana vanobatanidzwa mumatambudziko emotokari vanokura zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kunyange mwedzi mushure mekuitika kwechiitiko.
Chimwe chekudzidza chakabudiswa mu Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry uye Mental Health yakawana kuti vana vaduku vakagamuchira kupindira kwepfungwa imwechete kwemazuva manomwe kusvika gumi mushure mekunge netsaona yemotokari yakatanga zviratidzo zvishoma zvekuora mwoyo uye zvinetso zvekuita pamwedzi miviri nemwedzi mitanhatu yekutevera kupfuura avo vasina kugamuchira kupindira. Kupindira, kwakabatanidza mubereki umwe, kwakabatanidza zvakare kugadzirisa njodzi achishandiswa mifananidzo nematayiri, uye dzidzo pamusoro pemagariro epfungwa zvechiitiko chinotyisa.
Vanyori vekuongorora uku vakapedzisa kuti kupindira kwepakutanga kunobatsira pakudzivirira vana vasati vasvika pakurwisana nekuderedza kufungidzirwa uye matambudziko emitemo semugumisiro wenjodzi yemotokari. Kunyange zvakadaro, yakanga isingabatsiri kune vechidiki, avo vanogona kudikanwa zvakapetwa kakawanda.
Zvichipa izvi zvakawanikwa, zvakakosha kuwana rubatsiro kumwana wako shure kwechiitiko chinoshungurudza, sengozi yemotokari, uye kwete kumirira kusvikira mwana wako anoratidza zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo .
Vamwe Vana Vakawanda Vari Panjodzi
Maererano naDkt. Avshalom Caspi uye vashandi pamwe chete, avo vakabudisa chidzidzo muScience , vamwe vana vanowanzokonzerwa nekuora mwoyo semugumisiro wezviitiko zvinotambudza muupenyu. Uyezve, vana vane zvikamu zvekare zvekuora mwoyo vari pangozi yakawanda yekuwedzera kuora mwoyo zvakare. Kune vana ava, zvinogona kunge zvakakosha kunyanya kutsvaga kurapwa kwekutanga mushure mekuitika kwechiitiko kana zvimwe zviitiko zvinotyisa .
Mushure mekunge chiremba akadzivirira kunze kwekukuvara kupi zvayo mumwana wako, usavhunduka kubvunza kuti unyanzvi hwepfungwa, unyanzvi hwepfungwa kana wehutano hwehutano anotaura nemwana wako. Kana mamiriro ezvinhu achidzivisa kubvunzurudza pakarepo, ita nguva yekudzoka uye uone mumwe munhu muvhiki inotevera. Kana mwana wako atoona nyanzvi yehutano hwepfungwa, bvunza munhu iyeye kuti avabviswe kuti vazive nezvengozi.
Yeuka kuti mwana wako achangopfuura nenyaya inoshungurudza uye angangoda kutarisirwa nekukurudzirwa kubva kwauri kwekanguva. Mwana wako angave achitya kupinda mumotokari zvakare kana kuva oga. Iva nechokwadi chekutaura nemwana wako pamusoro pezvakaitika uye usaderedza kutya kwake. Zvisinei, kana ukacherechedza kuti zviratidzo zvake zvinowedzera, kuchinja kana kugara kwenguva refu kupfuura vhiki shomanana, sangana nachiremba kana basa rehutano hwepfungwa.
Kushungurudzika Zviratidzo Zvokuchengetedza Ziso
Zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kwevana zvinogona kusanganisira:
- Kusvibiswa
- Hasha
- Kutongwa
- Kunzwa kusanzwisiswa
- Kudzivisa mabasa evanhu; kubvisa shamwari neshamwari
- Kurasikirwa kwechido kune zvinhu zvekare zvaifarira
- Kudzidza kunodzika
- Zvinetso kurara
- Appetite uye kurema kuchinja
- Kunyunyuta kusinganzwisisiki kwenyama
- Kunyanya kuchema kuchema
Kana ukacherechedza chero zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kana zvimwe zviito zvisingatsanangurwi mumwana wako, uvaudze kune chiremba kana unyanzvi hwehutano hwepfungwa . Kushungurudzika muvana kunofanirwa kuongororwa uye kunorapwa kusati kwasvika mukana wakanaka wekudzoka.
Sources:
Avshalom Caspi, Karen Sugden, Terrie E. Moffitt, Alan Taylor, Ian W. Craig, HonaLee Harrington, Joseph McClay, Jonathan Mill, Judy Martin, Anthony Braithwaite, Richie Poulton. "Kuchinja Kwepfungwa Kushungurudzika Pamusoro Pokuora Mwoyo: Kuenzanisa nePolymorphism mu5-HTT Gene." Sayenzi July 18, 2003, 301: 386-389.
Daniel Zehnder, Martin Meuli, Markus A Landolt. "Kubudirira kweSvondo-Chimwe Chekutanga Kupindira Kwepsychological Kwavana Pashure Pematambudziko Emugwagwa Munharaunda: Rongedzo Rinochengetedzwa." Zvinyorwa zveMwana neVechidiki Psychiatry neMental Health , February 10, 2010. 4 (7)
Ndezvipi zviratidzo nezviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo? National Institute on Mental Health.