Nyaya dzekudzidza Social, Emotional, uye Cognitive Development
Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti doro rekushandisa doro reamai rine simba guru pakukura kwevana , asi izvo zvisingazivikanwi ndezvokuti zvinetso zvebaba zvinogona kukanganisa kukura kwevana panguva iyi.
Vaya vanodhakwa vanotaura kuti kunwa kwavo hakugadziri munhu asi ivo pachavo vangashamiswa kuona kuti doro ravo rekushandisa doro, kushushikana, uye mamwe matambudziko emanzwiro anogona kutanga kutora vana vavo pamwedzi gumi nemana.
Zvemagariro evanhu, Emotional and Cognitive Development
Kunyange zvazvo kuvabereki kushandiswa zvisina kunaka kwevabereki kuchiita basa rinokosha pakukura kwevana, kudhakwa hakuwanzovi chinhu chakasiyana. Kuvapo kwezviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kune mumwe mubereki kunogonawo kuva chinhu, vatsvakurudzi vanoti.
Kubatana kwevanhu, manzwiro uye kusanzwisisika kwevana vane doro-kushungurudza vanababa vakave vakaonekwa mukutsvakurudza paYunivhesiti kuBuffalo's Research Institute pamusoro pezvinodhaka (RIA).
PaRIA, Kenneth Leonard, Ph.D., uye vashandi pamwe navo vakaona kuberekwa kwevana doro-kushungurudza vanababa uye boka rinodzora pamwedzi 12, 18 uye 24. Vana vaitarirwa nemubereki wese mumutambo wepanyama.
Kunwa Doro Kunokanganisa Kubereka
Apo vana vacho vaiva nemwedzi gumi nemaviri, chidzidzo chacho chakawana kuti kana ichienzaniswa nababa vekutonga, madzimai anonyadzisa-anonyadzisa:
- Spoke vashoma kumucheche wavo
- Yakaratidza kuderera kunobatanidzwa kwakanaka
- Yakarondedzera mamwe manzwiro akaipa
- Yakataura zvakanyanya kuwedzera nevana vavo
Kuonekwa kwevabereki nevana vavo kwakaratidzawo kuti madoro anonyanyisa-madzimai akanga asina kunyanya kufunga mubereki wavo kana achienzaniswa nekutonga vanababa. Izvi zvinoreva kuti vakanga vasingazivi tsika dzevana vavo, kana kuti kwete kutungamirirwa nemafambiro evana vavo.
Vanaamai vakaroorwa newaini-vanonyomba vana vanoita nevana vavo kufanana navanaamai vakaroorana nevabereki vanobata. Asi, kana mai vacho vaine dambudziko rekushandisa doro zvisina kunaka kana kuti vakaratidza zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo, zvakakonzera kuberekera vana vasingakwanisi vana.
Kuzvidya mwoyo, Kuora mwoyo uye Zvinetso zvekuita
Panguva iyo vana vaiva nemwedzi 18, vana vechinwa doro-vanonyomba baba:
- Kuratidza zviratidzo zvekuzvidya mwoyo
- Zvaiva nezviratidzo zvakawanda zvekuora mwoyo
- Yakaratidza zvimwe kunze kwezvinetso, kufanana nekutamba
Kana vanaamai vevana vakanga vasina zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo, chete vana vewaini inodhaka-vanonyadzisa vairatidza kukonzera matambudziko. Zvisinei, apo mai vaine zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo, vana vakaratidza kuwedzera kwekunetsa matambudziko kana baba vaiva nezvinetso zvewaini kana kwete.
Kuora mwoyo Kunogona Kuita Basa Guru
Nokudaro, vatsvakurudzi veRIA vakapedzisa kuti zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo kune vamwe kana vabereki vose vanogona kuita basa guru mukukura kwevana pane kudhakwa kwewaini.
Vatsvakurudzi vakanyora kuti zvakakosha kuziva kuti havasi vana vose vari doro-kushungurudza mhuri kwakaratidza matambudziko chero zvachose. Zvechokwadi, kwaiva nekusiyana kwakasiyana pakati pemafambiro ezvinodhaka vemhuri uye vamwe vevana vavo vaiita zvakanaka.
Kuita Dzimwe Dambudziko
"Migumisiro yekudhakwa kwekudhakwa mukukura kwevana hakugoni kuonekwa sega yoga. Tinofanirwa kuongorora izvi zvinogumira kwenguva refu uye kutsvaka kuwana mamiriro ekugadzirisa mumhuri idzi," vanyori vakadaro.
Zvimwe zvidzidzo zvakawana kuti kunwa kwevabereki kunoramba kuchikanganisa vana kudarika makore makumi maviri nemana uye vana vanodhakwa vanogona kuunza zviito zvisina kunaka zvinosanganisira kuora mwoyo, kuzvidya mwoyo, kuzviuraya, zvinoshandisa zvinodhaka kana zvinetso zvevanhu.
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Park, S. et al. "Ongororo Yakagadziriswa yeKutsvakurudza pamusoro pevana vezvinwiwa: Inherent Renelience and Resulnerability." Zvinyorwa zveChidzidzo cheMwana neMhuri May 2015