Ari panjodzi nokuda kwehuwandu hwezvinetso zvekunzwa uye zvekuita
Inofungidzirwa kuti mumwe wevana vana muUnited States anobudiswa kudhakwa kana kudhakwa kwemishonga mumhuri yavo. Mamiriyoni evana vari pasi pemakore gumi nemasere vanogara mumusha unenge mubereki umwe wehadha.
Kutsvakurudza kunotitaurira kuti vana ava vane ngozi yakawanda yehutano hwakasiyana-siyana, hwepfungwa, uye hwekuita muupenyu hwavo. Pamusoro pezvo, nokuti ivo vana vezvinodhakwa, vane maitiro ezvakaberekwa uye epamusoro pemhuka yekudhakwa ivo pachavo.
Kunyange zvazvo vazhinji vevana ava vane matambudziko akakomba, vazhinji vavo vanorarama kuburikidza neruzivo rwekukura mumusha unodhakwa pasina kunyora chero upi hwepfungwa dzepfungwa kana zvekushandisa zvinodhaka.
Kunyanya Kukunda Matambudziko
Chimwe chidzidzo chakawana kuti nepo vana vazhinji vezvinwiwa vakagadzirisa zvinetso zvakakomba nemakore gumi nemasere, vazhinji (59%) havana kukurira matambudziko akadaro.
Vatsvakurudzi vakawana kuti vana vanogona kushanda nesimba kuti vaite zvakanaka pasinei nezvakaitika zvakagoverana zvinhu izvi:
- Kukwanisa kuwana rubatsiro rwakanaka kune vamwe
- Unyanzvi hwakakwana hwokukurukurirana
- Average intelligence
- Kuva nehanya
- Chido chokubudirira
- Kutenda mukuzviti-rubatsiro
Chinyorwa IQ, Verbal Scores
Kuongorora kwakawanda kuenzanisa vana vezvinwiwa kune vana ve-nonalcoholics vakaisa pfungwa pamagariro ekuziva. Chimwe chidzidzo chakawana kuti IQ yakakwana, kushanda, uye zvirevo zvemashoko zvakanga zvakaderera pakati pevana vakakwidziridzwa nebaba vakadhakwa , vachienzaniswa nevaya vakamutswa nevasina mababa.
Chimwe chidzidzo chakawana pasi chakakwana IQ uye zvinyorwa zvemashoko, asi kwete pakuedzwa kwekushanda (chiyero chebhuku uye pfungwa yekufunga).
Kuita Mukati Mahara Akarongeka
Chidzidzo chevana vanodhakwa avo mhuri dzavo vakadzidziswa uye vabereki vavo vaigara mumusha vakawana kuti zvidzidzo zvishoma zveIQ, masvomiti, kuverenga, uye mazwi ezvinyorwa zvevana kubva kune doro mhuri .
Zvisinei, pasinei nezvikoro zvakaderera, vana vemisha ine doro vanoitwa mukati mezvikwata zvakasununguka zvekuongorora kweunyanzvi mune zvese zvidzidzo zviri pamusoro.
Kuwedzeredza maitiro avo
Chimwe chidzidzo chevana vanodhakwa kubva kumhuri yakanga isati yavhiringidzika yakawana kusawirirana mune zvidzidzo zvavo zvichienzaniswa nevana kubva kune dzimwe nyika dzisina mhuri. Kunyange zvakadaro, vakawana kuti vana vezvinodhakwa vaisatora zvavanokwanisa.
Uyezve, vakawana kuti vanaamai veaidhakwa vakapinza simba revana vavo. Aya maonero anogona kukanganisa zvinodiwa nevana, kuzviremekedza , uye kushanda kwenguva yemberi, vatsvakurudzi vakati.
Kudzidzira zvidzidzo, panzvimbo yeIQ zvidzidzo, zvinogona kuva chiyero chakanaka chemigumisiro yekurarama nemubereki ane doro. Vana vazhinji vanodhakwa vane matambudziko edzidzo.
Vakawanda Vane Matambudziko Okudzidza
Zvinetso izvi zvinosanganisira:
- Kudzokorora makirasi
- Kukundikana kupedza chikoro chesekondari
- Zvinotsanangurwa kune vekuchikoro kwepfungwa
Zvinetso zvinokurudzira uye kushungurudzika kwemamiriro ezvinhu epamba zvinogona kuita kuti pave nedambudziko redzidzo, kunyange zvazvo kukanganisa kunzwisisika kunogona kunge kuri kukanganisa, vatsvakurudzi vanotenda.
Kuwedzera Kukuru Kwekuora Mwoyo, Kuzvidya Mwoyo
Kunyanya kudhakwa kwevabereki kunobatanidzwa nehuwandu hwehutano hwepfungwa muvana vavo.
Ongororo dzakawana kuti kushanda kwepfungwa kwevana vanodhakwa kunogona kukanganisa nekurambana, kuvhiringidzika kwevabereki kana kuora mwoyo, kana kuchinja kusingadi mumhuri kana mumamiriro ezvinhu ehupenyu.
Ongororo dzakawanda dzakawana kuti vana vanobva mumisha ine doro vane huwandu hwakanyanya hwekuora mwoyo nekuzvidya mwoyo uye vanoratidza zviratidzo zvakawanda zvekunyanya kudzvinyirira kupfuura vana vanobva kune dzimwe nhengo dzisina mhuri.
Kuwedzera Kuwedzerwa Kuora Mwoyo
Vana vanodhakwa vanoratidza zviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo zvakanyanya kuti vana vemisha isina mhirizhonga uye kuzvidzora kwavo kuzvirondedzera kunowanzowedzera kune rumwe rutivi rwechiyero, vatsvakurudzi vakawana.
Vana vanobva mumisha ine doro vanowanzoongororwa vane zvinetso zvekuita. Vadzidzisi vavo vanowanzotarisa sevanonyanya kuperesa uye vasingafungi kupfuura vana vemisha isina misha.
Zvinetso zvekuita
Zvinetso zvekuita zvevana vanodhakwa zvinowanzobatanidza:
- Kunyengera
- Kuba
- Kurwisana
- Truancy
- Zvinetso zvekuchikoro
Kurwisana Kukuru, Kubata
Vana vanodhakwa vari pangozi yakakura yekudarika uye chikoro chechikoro. Kushandiswa kwevabereki nedoro kunobatanidza nekuongororwa kukanganisa kwevana vezvinwiwa.
Vatsvakurudzi vakawana kuti mhuri dzevakadhakwa dzakadhakwa dzakadzika dze:
- Kubatana kwemhuri
- Kutsanangura
- Kuzvimirira
- Kunyoresa pfungwa
Imwe mhuri ine doro ine huwandu hwekukakavadzana, kusakwanisa kugadzirisa matambudziko, uye kushamwaridzana kukurukurirana, asi matambudziko iwayo anowanikwa mumhuri ine matambudziko kunze kwewaini zvakare. Zvisinei, muimba inodhakwa, mubereki anoramba achimwa kunobatsira pakuvhiringidzwa kwehupenyu hwemhuri.
Migumisiro yeMhuri Dysfunction
Zvimwe zvezvinetso zvinotarisana nevanodhakwa zvinogona kunge zvisingave zvakabatana zvikuru nekudhakwa mumhuri pachako, asi kune kusagadzikana kwevanhu uye kwepfungwa iyo imba inodhakwa inogona kubereka.
Somuenzaniso, imwe tsvakurudzo yakawana kuti vana vane doro nevabereki havakwanisi kuva madorokwa ivo pachavo kana vabereki vavo vachigadzirisa uye vachiita zvavanoronga uye vanochengeta tsika dzemhuri dzakadaro sezororo uye nguva dzekudya nguva dzose.
Mubereki Kuwana Mukudzoka Kunobatsira
Uyezve, kumwe kuongororwa kwakawana kuti kana mubereki wekumwa amira kunwa uye anowedzera kugadzirisa, zvinoderedza kushungurudzika mupfungwa kune vana. Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti kushushikana kwebasa mukati mevana yekudzikinura doro kwakange kwakafanana neyevana vevasirio.
Zvisinei, chidzidzo ichocho chakawana kuti vana vezvidhakwa vanorondedzera huwandu hwekunyanya uye kuora mwoyo apo mubereki wavo ane doro anodzoka zvakare.
Vana Veimwe Dzimba Dzakaoma
Rimwe dambudziko rinotarisana nevatsvakurudzi rinotarisa zvinokonzerwa nevana vari kukura mumadhakwa ezvinyorwa vari kuedza kuziva kuwanda kwematambudziko iwayo uye kana vakananga zvakananga kudhakwa kana kuti kune mamwe maitiro asina kukodzera.
Nenguva dzakawanda vatsvakurudzi vanogona kuongorora huwandu hwezvinetso nokuti vatori vechikamu mune zvidzidzo zvavo vanotorwa kubva kuvana vari mumatambudziko kana mukurapa. Vechidiki vaduku ndivo vanopinda mushonga uye ruramisiro, saka avo "makamu" emakiriniki angave akawandisa.
Hazvibatsiri pamatunhu mazhinji
Izvo zvakaomawo kuziva kana matambudziko anotsanangurwa nevana vewadhakwa ari chaiwo ekudhakwa kwevabereki, kana kuti anowanzoitika kune dzimwe mhuri dzisingabatsiri. Kana zvakadaro, zvinetso zvingasava doro zvakananga.
Pasinei, chokwadi ichocho chinoramba chiripo kuti dzimba dzine mudhakwa zvinodhaka zvinogona kuva zvisina kukodzera pamatongerwo mazhinji uye mamiriro ezvinhu anoisa vana pangozi yezviitiko zvakasiyana siyana zvakashata.
Sources:
Dayton, T. " Mufananidzo weMhuri Inodhaka: Vana Vakakanganwa; Kurudyi KwoMusuo ?" National Association for Children of Alcoholics Akawana muna January 2016
National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism. "Vana Vezvinwiwa: Vakasiyana Here?" Doro Dzocherechedza July 1990