Vechiduku vane kushushikana kunogona kunge vasina kuchengeteka kana kusagutsikana muhukama
Migumisiro yakaipa yekuora mwoyo pahukama hunobatanidza vana, vechidiki kana vanhu vakuru vanosimbiswa zvakanaka. Muzhinji, vana vanoora mwoyo nevechiri kuyaruka vanorondedzera kuva nehukama husingagutsikane uye vanonzwa vasina kuchengeteka pamusoro pehukama hwavo.
Kuumba hukama hwepabonde chinhu chinokosha chinosimudzira vechidiki, sezvo hukama hwevechidiki hunotidzidzisa unyanzvi hunokosha hunobetsera vanhu vakura munguva yemberi.
Kusuruvara Kunobatsira Sei Ukama?
Vachiri kuyaruka vane huwandu hwakawanda hwezviratidzo zvinodzvinyirira vangasava nehutano hwekugadzirisa zvinetso, zvichikonzera kuoma kugadzirisa kusawirirana muhukama hwepabonde kuburikidza nekukura kwevanhu vakuru, maererano nekuongorora kwakabudiswa mu Journal of Clinical Child uye Adolescent Psychology muna 2011.
Vatsvakurudzi vakatsvaga zviratidzo zvinodzvinyirira, unyanzvi hwokugadzirisa zvinetso nekugadzirisa kusawirirana kwevadzidzi vekuchikoro chegumi gumi pamusoro pegore nemakumi mana nehafu. Vanoratidza kuti zviratidzo zvinodzvinyirira zvinogona kupindira nekuwana mikana yekugadzirisa zvinetso, iyo inoita seinokosha pakushamwaridzana kwerudo munguva yemberi.
Uyezve, zviratidzo zvinowanzoonekwa zvekuora mwoyo, zvakadai sekusununguka kwevanhu , kunzwa kusanzwisiswa kana kutsamwa , kunogona kuderedza chido checheche chekuumba ukama zvachose. Kusava neukama, zvechokwadi, kunogona kubvisa vechidiki vakadaro sekugadzirisa matambudziko nekugadzirisa kusangana kwemakakatanwa kuchavashandira zvakanaka mukukura.
Apo Inogona Kuve Kuora Mwoyo
Kushungurudzika muhukama hwave huchitsanangurwa sehupamberi uye zvinokonzera kushungurudzika kwevana . Zvichipa izvi, vabereki vevana kana vari kuyaruka vanoratidza kushushikana kukuru kana kuoma muhukama vanofanira kutarisa zvimwe zviratidzo nezviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo, zvakadai se:
- Kusuruvara
- Manzwiro emhosva
- Manzwiro ekusava netariro kana kusakosha
- Kunyunyuta kusinganzwisisiki kwenyama
- Kurara uye kuda kudya kunochinja
Kunyange zviratidzo zvepfungwa zvinokonzerwa nekuora mwoyo zvinoratidzirwa kuti zvinopesana nehukama hwehukama. Nokudaro, kusarudzwa kwokutanga uye kurapwa kwezvinyorwa zvinyoronyoro zviratidzo muhuduku zvinogona kuva nezvakakosha zvinobatsira mwana wako.
Shoko Rinobva
Vose vana nevechiri kuyaruka vachabva vaine hukama hwakaderera muhukama hwavo, asi kana iwe uchinzwa sehukama hwehukama hwake hunovhiringidza nekushanda kwake kwezuva nezuva , zvakakosha kutaura nemwana wake kana mwana wehutano hwepfungwa kuti aongorore zviri kuitika. Kune rumwe rutivi, kuora mwoyo kungave kusina kukonzera ukama hwakaipa hwemwana. Kusagamuchirwa kana kuti nguva dzenguva dzenguva duku dze rudo dzinogona kunge dziri kupomerwa mhosva zvakare.
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