Dzidza kubva kune mienzaniso yemuganhu wehutano hwehutano
Kufanana nemuenzaniso mizhinji we border border personality disorder (BPD), muenzaniso wakaratidzwa pano unofanirwa. "Jorodhani" haisi munhu chaiye, uye kufanana kupi zvako pakati pemunhu uyu weanofungidzira uye chero munhu chaiye chaiye hazvibvumirano. Zviratidzo uye maitiro anotsanangurwa, zvisinei, zvinowanzoitika kune munhu ane BPD.
Infancy
Kunyangwe Jorodhani paiva kacheche kadiki, pane chimwe chinhu chakasiyana kwazvo nezvake.
Akaita zvakanyanya kune zvinhu zvakawanda. Akanga achitsamwiswa nyore, haana kugadzirisa nyore nyore kuvanhu vatsva kana nzvimbo, uye akanga akaoma kunyaradza.
Asi iye aingova mwana; zvaiita sokuti zvakanga zvisingoshamisi kuti zvive nehanya nazvo. Vabereki vake vaifunga kuti vana vose vakasiyana uye kuti maitiro eJorodhani aingova chirongwa chaangokura nacho.
Childhood Behavior
Sezvo Joridhani yakakura, haana kukura kubva pachikamu chake. Akaramba achitsamwiswa nyore uye zvakaoma kunyaradza, uye aive nekuparadzanisa kukuru kwakanyanya. Kana amai vake vakasiya mukana, Jorodhani yaizochema kusvikira adzoka.
Kunyange zvakadaro, vabereki vake vakanga vasina hanya zvikuru. Vakanga vanzwa kuti kuparadzana kunetseka kwakanaka chaizvo muvana vaduku, uye Joridhani yaiva neunhu hwakawanda hwakanaka. Dzimwe nguva, anogona kuva mwana ane rudo zvikuru. Vaiwanzova nenguva dzakanaka pamwe chete.
Makore Ari Muduku
Zvinhu zvakatanga kuchinja apo Jorodhani yakamurova achiri kuyaruka. Pakanga pane zvishoma nezvishoma nguva dzakanaka.
Akawedzera kukurumidza uye kutsamwa. Akatanga kuita zvakanyanya-achidanidzira nevabereki vake nevadzidzisi uye achiita zvinhu zvisingatauriki , sekutiza kubva kumba.
Dzimwe nguva, kwenguva yakati, Joridhani yaizova neshamwari yepedyo kana vaviri kuchikoro, asi vakanga vasina shamwari kwenguva refu. Kurwisana kwakagara kuchiitika, uye ushamwari hwaizoguma.
Jorodhani akataura pamusoro pekunge ari oga uye ainetseka ainzwa, kuti hakuna munhu akamunzwisisa. Vabereki vake vakanga vatanga kunetseka pamusoro pake, asi zvakadini kana nzira yaJordani yaive ichiita yaingova tsika chaiyo yevechiri kuyaruka? Vakanga vasati vagadzirira kutsvaka rubatsiro.
Pakazosvika nguva Jorodhani yakasvitsa makore 17, hupenyu hwake hwemusha hwakanga huri kutanga kutora zvakanyanya kutadza. Akashungurudzika mupfungwa , manzwiro ake akachinja haana kunyatsozivikanwa, uye aigona kushandura mafungiro kubva paminiti imwe kuenda kune inotevera. Akanga achirwa nevabereki vake anenge mazuva ese, kazhinji achidanidzira nekukandira zvinhu. Dzimwe nguva aiita seanotya kuti ave asina amai vake; pane dzimwe nguva aizobva mumba aine hutsinye hwehasha uye asingadzoki kwemazuva.
Rimwe zuva, amai vake vakacherechedza matanda paJordan. Apo amai vake vakatanga kutarisana naJoridhani pamusoro pavo, Joridhani vakamuudza kuti kati yakanga yamuputira. Asi iye akabvuma kuti akanga achizvikuvadza, achizvicheka nokuti ainzwa akasurukirwa uye achinetseka uye ichi ndicho "chinhu chimwe chete chinondiita kuti ndinzwe zviri nani."
Zvino vabereki vake vaiziva: Vaida kuwana rubatsiro rweJoridhani.
A Misdiagnosis
Vabereki veJoridhani vakakwanisa kuwana chiremba chepfungwa munharaunda yavo avo vakabvuma hutano hwavo hwehutano inshuwarheni uye vakaunza Jordani kuti vamuone.
Muongorori wepfungwa akatora nguva achitaura naJorodhani uye achimukumbira iye nevabereki vake nezvezviratidzo zvake. Kubva pakuongorora uku pfupi, chiremba wepfungwa akawana Jordani ane chirwere cheBipolar uye akarayira mishonga yekusimudzira mafungiro .
Iyo mishonga mitsva yakaita seyikubatsira, uye Jordani nevabereki vake vaitarisira kuti zvinhu zvaizova nani. Achida kunzwisisa chirwere chake chiri nani uye kuwana ruzivo rwekumubatsira kuti adzoke, vabereki vaJordan vanoverenga nezve bipolar disorder. Zvavaiverenga, zvisinei, hazvina nguva dzose zvakaenzana nemwanasikana wavo zviratidzo. Semuenzaniso, manzwiro eJordani aiita seaishandura nokukurumidza uye kazhinji, asi mafungiro echinangwa muhutano hwe bipolar akanzi sarudzo.
A Kuona Zvakarurama
Rimwe zuva, apo vachiri kurapwa neBipolar disorder, Jordan akaenderera mberi paIndaneti ndokugumburwa pane tsanangudzo ye border border personality disorder (BPD). Sezvaaiverenga pamusoro pezviratidzo zveBPD , akaziva kuti, kwekutanga, mumwe munhu akaita seanonzwisisa zvaiitika mukati memusoro wake. Akamutumidza amai uye akamuverengera peji yaakawana. Amai vake vakabvumirana neJoridhani-zvakaratidzika sekuti pakupedzisira vanogona kuva nemhinduro.
Amai veJorodhani vakawana nzvimbo dzekutengesa dzakamutungamirira kune rumwe ruzivo rwevadzidzi veBPD munharaunda yavo. Vakagadzirira kusangana nemuongorori wepfungwa, uyo akasangana naJordan kakawanda. Mushure mekunge musangano wavo wechitatu, chiremba wepfungwa itsva akatsunga kuti Joridhani yakasangana nehutano hweBPD. Muongorori wepfungwa akazotsanangura nzira dzokurapa dzaivepo, kusanganisira mishonga uye psychotherapy.
Zvishoma nezvishoma Kuwanazve Kudzora
Pa23, Jorodhani ichiri nezviratidzo zvakawanda zveBPD. Zvisinei, kurapwa nemubatanidzwa wemishonga uye dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) yakaratidza kuderedza zviratidzo zvayo. Haachazvikuvadzi zvakare, ari kushanda chikamu-nguva, uye ane shamwari dzinoverengeka dzepedyo.
Jorodhani ichiripo nguva apo inonzwa ichinetseka uye ine matambudziko nehasha uye hukama. Nenzira yakanaka, arikudzidzira unyanzvi hwekugadzirisa hunogona kumubatsira kuti adzoke pakugadzirisa uye kutarisira zviratidzo izvozvo paanoitika.
Chiitiko cheJodhani cheBPD: Summing Up
Chiitiko cheJordani ndeimwe yemuenzaniso mizhinji yemuganhu wehutano hwepfungwa, iyo inowanzosiyana pakati pevanhu vane. Semuyenzaniso:
- Vamwe vanhu vane BPD vane mhuri dzinotsigira, kufanana neJordani, asi vamwe vanokurira mumamiriro ezvinhu anotambudza (hupenyu hwehupenyu hunobatanidza nekuvandudzwa kwezviratidzo zveBPD).
- Vamwe, kufanana neJorodhani, vanotanga kuratidzira zviratidzo zveBPD munguva yekuyaruka, asi vamwe havana zviratidzo kusvikira vasvika pakupera kwevechiri kuyaruka.
- Hasi munhu wose ane BPD anopindurawo pamwe nekurapa sezvakaita Jorodhani, kunyange vakawanda vachiita.
> Kwakabva:
> National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH). Borderline Personality Disorder. Yakavandudzwa December 2017.