Mabasa Mashomanana Anogona Kukonzera Kurwisana Kukuru
Kana iwe kana wako wako usingafari nezvekugoverwa kwemabasa epamba, kushungurudzika kwemukati mumba mako kuchawedzera zvakanyanya. Kurwisana pamusoro pemabasa emhuri ndeyekupikisana chete nemari muwanano maererano nemigumisiro yaro.
"Dhigirii iro basa reimba rakagoverwa iye zvino nderimwe remashoko maviri anokosha kupfuura ose ekugutsikana kwemhuri yomudzimai," anonyora kudaro Stephanie Coontz muNew York Times.
"Uye varume vanobatsirwawo zvakare, sezvo zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti vakadzi vanonzwa vachida zvepabonde kune avo vanobvumirana vanopinda."
Kana iwe ukakumbira madzimai kuti chii chinonyanya kukosha kwekushungurudzika, chaizvoizvo vashomanana vachabvuma kuti ndeyekuti varume vavo havadi kuita chikamu chebasa ravo pamba. Kushushikana mupfungwa kunowedzera mumba mako kana mumwe wenyu asina kufara nezvemabasa asina kukwana. Vakaroorana vanorwisana pamusoro paani anoita zvinopoteredza imba zvakanyanya sezvavari kurwisana nemari. Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzakaongororwa uye zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti kunyange zvazvo vakadzi vazhinji vanoshanda kunze kwemba, vanoramba vachiita mabasa akawanda epamba.
Kusarudzwa Kwisina Kusarudzwa-Kusvetuka Kunogona Kuita Ushamwari hweMuchato
Muchato uri munzira dzakawanda kushamwaridzana kwebhizimisi - uye bhizimisi iri kuita imba. Izvozvo zvinoreva kuchengeta marekodhi emari, kuchengetedza, kutengesa, kuronga, kuchenesa , kubika, kutarisira vana, kutfambisa, nezvimwe. Kana bhizinesi richifamba zvakanaka, kune rugare rukuru uye hukama .
Zvisinei, kana shamwari dzichikwira uye imba yacho inotyisa, kana kana pasina nguo dzakachena kuti dzipfeke, kana mvura inonaya uye denga rakakanganisika harina kugadziriswa nekuda kwekudzivisa ... ipapo kutsamwa kukura, kusanzwisisana kwepasi, uye Chikonzero chinopesana .
"Kuenzana" Chore Division iri Muziso reCherechedzi
Courtney Ronan anonyora kuti maererano neongororo yeMSNBC, vakapindura vakabvunzwa kana mabasa epamba pavo ainge aitwa nomunhu mumwechete kana kuti akagoverwa.
Zvigumisiro zvaive zvichitaurira: 74 muzana yevarume vakati mabasa aya akagoverwa; 51 muzana yevakadzi vakati mabasa akagoverwa. 26 muzana yevarume vakati mumwe munhu akaita mabasa epamba; 49 muzana yevakadzi vakataura zvakafanana.
Mubvunzo wekukurukurirana
George Eliot akanyora, Tiri kuraramei, kana tisingaiti kuti upenyu huomerane kune umwe neumwe?
Iwe unoita kuti hupenyu huve hwakaoma kune mumwe nemumwe, kana kuti zvakaoma zvikuru here? Mhinduro yako inokuita kuti unzwe sei?
Nzira Yokuparadzanisa Mabasa Emhuri
Chikanganiso chikuru chaunogona kuita mukutsvaga kwako kuti muve nemumwe wako aite mabasa akawanda kune imba ndekukumbira rubatsiro. Kukumbira rubatsiro kunoratidza kuti mutoro wemabasa epamba ndewewe chete. Muzvokwadi, mabasa epamba akafanirwa kugoverwa mabasa, uye kuita basa rakanaka kugovana mabasa epamba kunokosha kuti uone kuti imba inofadza . Heano mamwe mazano ekuparadzanisa zvakanaka.
- Ita zvinhu zvako zvakanyanya sevanhu vaviri. Chii chinonyanya kukosha kune umwe neumwe wenyu? Kurukurai kuti imi mose munonzwa sei pamusoro pekudya zvakagadzirwa kumba kumba kwekudya nokukurumidza kana kudya kunze nenguva. Tsvaga manzwiro ako pamusoro pekuguruva, kushambidza chimbuzi, kuita bhedha, kuchera uswa, kubhadhara zvikwereti, nezvimwewo.
- Gara pasi pamwe chete uye uite runyora rwemabasa ako mumwe nomumwe wenyu anovenga kuita. Izvo zvinovengwa nomumwe, mumwe anogona kukwanisa kushivirira. Kana mose muri kuvenga basa rakafanana, tsvagai nzira yekunyengedzera mukuita basa iri risingafadzi kuitwa. Kana kuti zvimwe unogona kutora basa rakaipa pamwe chete, seboka. Iwe unogona kuwanawo mari mubhajheji yako kuti uwane mumwe munhu kuti aite basa iroro.
- Zvakakoshawo, zvakare, kuva nehanya nemamwe maawa omzimba. Vamwe vanhu vari mangwanani mangwanani uye vamwe vanhu usiku husi. Kumanikidzirana kuita basa kana kuita basa kana ivo vasati vakagadzirira kuzviita chete kunobata kukanganisa. Nguva inokosha inokosha. Ndiko kugoverana zvinotarisirwa.
- Regai mumwe nomumwe azive kuti vhiki iri kuuya ichave yakaita sei. Misangano, zvinyorwa, zviitiko zvakakosha, nezvimwe. Zvadaro sarudza kuti ndiani achaita izvo, nyora urongwa, uye ugoisa mutsara. Uye rega iende. Usavhiringidzirana pamusoro pezvawakazvipira kuita. Kana basa racho risati raitwa nevhiki inotevera apo iwe unogara pasi kuti ugovere zvinotarisirwa, ndiyo nguva yekuuya nayo.
- Kana mumwe wenyu asingateereri pazvivimbiso zvekuita chikamu chako chebasa rakapoteredza imba yako, edza uye uwane pamwe kuti sei kune kushaya kwakadaro. Vamwe varume vanogona kuona mabasa epamba semabasa emukadzi. Kutuka mumwe wako pane izvo zvisati zvaitwa kana kupedzerwa zviri kungoparadza simba.
- Ita zvigadziriswe uye tendera mumwe wako kuti aite mabasa nenzira yake. Kana kuva netauro zvakapetwa neimwe nzira zvakakosha kwauri, ipapo ita iwe pachako.
- Vakawanda vakaroorana vanoona kuti vanotarisa kupatsanurwa kwemabasa akasiyana. Dambudziko remukati rinongotadzisa vamwe vanhu. Kana mushure mokurukurirana nezvemamiriro acho ezvinhu, mumwe wako anoramba zvachose kugovana zvakaenzana mumabasa epamba, uye wakaneta kutakura mutoro iwe pachako, saka une zvimwe zvasarudzo zvokuita. Pasi pepamusoro, haugoni kuchinja mumwe wako. Iwe unogona kubhadhara vamwe kunze kwekubatsira, kana iwe unogona kurega kuita mamwe mabasa ausingadi kuita zvakare. Denga harizomboperi nokuti hausikudya kudya kwemazuva matatu usiku humwe.
- Tarisa kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzeimba yako uye yadhi kuti iwe unoda kuderedza zvakare kuchengetedza nguva pamwe nemari. Edza kuwana imba yako yakarongeka kuitira kuti inoshanda zvakanyanya. Zvibvunze kana mamwe mabasa aifanira kutoitwa nguva dzose. Somuenzaniso, kana uchichera uswa hunotora nguva yakawanda, shandisa mbeu yemaruva emusango kunze uko uye ita kuti chimiro chiite chinhu chake. Kana iwe uchivenga kusina, ipai zvipfeko izvo zvinoda ironing uye udire dare. Ko mahwindo anofanira kuramba achipenya here? Mushure mokunge uongororai mutero wako wekuchengetedza imba, mabasa ako epamba anogona kunge asingadonheki mupfungwa uye mumuviri.
> Kwakabva:
> Stephanie Coontz. "MRS uye Ph.D." NYTimes.com. 2/11/2012.