Zvinokonzera uye Utano Migumisiro Yokunzwa Kusurukirwa
Kusurukirwa ishoko revanhu rose rinowanikwa zvakaoma uye rakasiyana kune mumwe nomumwe. Nemhaka yokuti haina chinhu chimwe chete chinokonzera, kudzivirira uye kurapwa kwechiitiko ichi chinogona kukuvadza chinogona kusiyanisa zvinoshamisa.
Semuenzaniso, mwana ari oga ane shungu dzekuita shamwari pachikoro chake ane zvido zvakasiyana pane murume wega ari oga ane mudzimai wake achangobva kufa.
Kuti unzwisise kusurukirwa, zvakakosha kutarisisa zvakanyanya zvatinoreva nezwi rokuti "kusurukirwa," uyewo zvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana, migumisiro yehutano, zviratidzo, nekugona kurapwa kwekusurukirwa.
Kusurukirwa Ndiyo Hurongwa Hwepfungwa
Apo kutsanangurwa kwakajairika kwekusurukirwa kunorondedzera semamiriro ezvinhu ega kana kuti uri woga, kusurukirwa chaicho chiri mupfungwa yepfungwa. Kusurukirwa kunokonzera vanhu kuti vanzwe vasina chinhu, voga, uye vasingadiwi. Vanhu vakasurukirwa kazhinji vanoda kufambidzana nevanhu, asi mafungiro avo anoita kuti zvive zvakaoma kuumba ukama nevamwe vanhu.
Kusurukirwa, maererano nenyanzvi dzakawanda, hazvirevi kuti ndega. Pane kudaro, kana iwe uchinzwa uri woga uye uri woga, ipapo ndiko kusurukirwa kunowedzera mumamiriro ako epfungwa. Semuenzaniso, ekoroji itsva inogona kunzwa yakasurukirwa pasinei nekunge yakakombwa nevanogara nevamwe vezera rako. Mutoja anotanga basa rake rehondo angave anonzwa akasurukirwa mushure mokunge aendeswa kune imwe nyika, pasinei nekugara achikomberedzwa nedzimwe nhengo dzevarwi.
Zvinokonzera
Maererano nekutsvakurudza kwakaitwa naDkt. John Cacioppo, Tiffany naMargaret Blake VaPurofesa wePurogiramu yePurogiramu uye nheyo uye mutungamiriri weCent for Cognitive and Social Neuroscience paYunivhesiti yeChicago, mubatanidzwa webasa rezvemagariro evanhu, uye imwe yepamusoro nyanzvi dzeruzhinji muU.S., kusurukirwa kwakanyatsobatana ne genetics.
Zvimwe zvipo zvinokonzera zvinosanganisira zvipimo zvemamiriro ezvinhu, zvakadai sekuzvimirira, kutamira kunzvimbo itsva, uye kurambana. Rufu rweumwe munhu hunokosha muupenyu hwemunhu hunogonawo kutungamirira kumanzwiro okusurukirwa. Uyezve, inogona kuva chiratidzo chepfungwa yepfungwa dzakadai sokuora mwoyo.
Kusurukirwa kunogonawo kunzi kuwanikwa mukati mezvinhu zvakadai sekuzvidzivirira . Vanhu vasina ruvimbo mukati mavo kazhinji vanotenda kuti havana kukodzera kutarisirwa kana kutarisa kune vamwe vanhu. Izvi zvinogona kutungamirira kune oga uye kusagadzikana kusurukirwa.
Ngozi dzehutano dzakabatana nekusurukirwa
Kusurukirwa kune zvakasiyana-siyana zvakashata zvinokonzera kuhutano hwepanyama nepfungwa , kusanganisira:
- Kuora mwoyo uye kuzviuraya
- Utano hwepfungwa uye chirwere
- Kuwedzerwa kunetseka kwemazinga
- Yakaderedza chiyeuchidzo uye kudzidza
- Unhu hwemagariro
- Kusarudzwa kwekuita zvisarudzo
- Kunwa doro uye kushandisa zvinodhaka
- Kufambira mberi kwechirwere cheAlzheimer
- Uropi hunochinja hunoita
Iyi haisi yega nzvimbo iyo kusurukirwa kunotora.
"Vanhu vakuru vari voga vanodya doro rakawandisa uye vanoita zvishoma kudyidzana kune avo vasina kusurukirwa." Kudya kwavo kwakanyanya mumafuta, kurara kwavo hakusi kuderera, uye vanorondedzera kukanganiswa kwemasikati akawanda. Kusurukirwa kunokanganisawo mutemo wemasero epakati mukati memuviri, kutitemera kuti tive nekukwegura tisati takura. " -Dhe. John Cacioppo
Vatsvakurudzi vakaona kuti kuderera kusurukirwa kunobatanidzwa newanano, mari inowedzera, uye yepamusoro yemamiriro ekudzidzisa. Kukwidziridza kusurukirwa kunobatanidza nehutano hwehutano hwezvirwere, kurarama uri woga, hutano hwemagariro evanhu, uye hukama hwakanaka hwehukama hwevanhu.
Pedyo Neshamwari Kurwisa Kusurukirwa
Vatsvakurudzi vanoratidzawo kuti kusurukirwa kuri kuwedzera kuve muUnited States. Kubvira muna 1985, nhamba yevanhu vari muUnited States vasina shamwari dzepedyo yakave katatu. Kuwedzera kwekambani uye zvinoshamisa, zvekugarisana kwevanhu, zvishoma nezvishoma kune mhosva.
Nyanzvi dzinofunga kuti haisi huwandu hwekubatana kwemagariro evanhu hunorwisa kusurukirwa, asi iyo inhu .
Kuva nevanenge vatatu kana vana vashamwari vepedyo zvakakwana kudzivisa kusurukirwa uye kuderedza mamiriro akaipa ehutano anobatanidza nemamiriro ezvinhu epfungwa.
Kusurukirwa Kunogona Kubatanidzwa
Chimwe chidzidzo chinoratidza kuti kusurukirwa kunogona kupararira . Mukuongorora kwegore gumi, vatsvakurudzi vakaongorora kuti kusurukirwa kunopararira sei mumagariro evanhu. Migumisiro yakaratidza kuti vanhu vari pedo nemumwe munhu ane kusurukirwa vaiva 52 muzana vakawanda vangave vakasurukirwawo zvakare.
Mazano Okudzivirira Kusurukirwa
Kusurukirwa kunogona kukundwa. Zvinoda kushanda nesimba pane yako kuti uite shanduko. Kuita shanduko, mukufamba kwenguva, kunogona kukuita kuti ufare, utano, uye kukugonesa kuchinja vamwe vanokupoteredza nenzira yakanaka.
Heano dzimwe nzira dzokudzivirira kusurukirwa:
- Ziva kuti kusurukirwa chiratidzo chokuti chimwe chinhu chinoda kuchinja.
- Kunzwisisa migumisiro iyo kusurukirwa kune hupenyu hwako, zvose mumuviri nepfungwa.
- Funga kuita basa remunharaunda kana rimwe basa raunofarira. Iyi mamiriro ezvinhu anopa mikana yakawanda yekusangana nevanhu uye kukudziridza ushamwari hutsva uye kushamwaridzana kwevanhu.
- Tarisa pakuvandudza hukama hwehukama nevanhu vane mafungiro akafanana, zvido, uye mararamiro nemwi.
- Tarisira zvakanakisisa. Vanhu vari voga vanowanzotarisira kurambwa, saka pane kufunga pane zvakanaka nepfungwa mumahukama ehukama hwako.
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