Vakadzi vakawanda vanorwara kubva kunwa doro nekushandisa zvinodhaka nekuita chisarudzo chekudzoka kunodhakwa kwavo nemararamiro matsva. Kusiyana nekutenda kwakakurumbira, vamwe vakadzi vanodzoka kubva kune zvinodhaka uye zvinodhakwa zvinodhaka havaiti saizvozvo kuvana vavo kana kuti nokuti "vanomuka" pakarepo pamusoro pezvinetso zvavo, maererano nezvishoma zvidzidzo zvevaimbova vakadzi vanodhakwa.
Idzi vakadzi - vakawanda vavo vanopfuura makore makumi matatu nemakumi matatu uye vane chikoro chekoroji - vakatora chikamu chekubatsira mukukunda kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka, kuchinja zvidhakwa izvozvi nemararamiro matsva anosanganisira chikoro, basa, basa remunharaunda uye kuita muviri.
Vakadzi Vanotarisana Nezvinetso Zvimwe
Vakadzi ndivo chikamu chinokurumidza kukura chezvinhu zvinodhaka muUnited States: Inenge mamiriyoni maviri nemaviri eAmerica vanoshandisa doro kana madhiragi, kana chechina chevatambudzi vose, maererano neFederal Center for Drug Abuse Prevention. Asi pane zvishoma zvitsvakurudzo pamusoro pezvidzidzo zvevakadzi zvekuti vanodzoka sei kubva kune zvinodhaka uye zvinodhakwa zvinodhaka, maererano neOhio University sociologist Judith Grant.
Grant, mupurofesa mubatsiri akashanyira, akapedza makore matatu mubazi risina purofiti muCanada, kwaakashanda semutsvakurudzi uye mudzidzisi ane vanodarika mazana matatu vakaroora vakadzi vakanyoresa purogiramu yekudzorera. Vazhinji vevakadzi vakatarisana nematambudziko akasiyana nevarume vanodhakwa uye vakaronga nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzokukunda kudhakwa kwezvinodhaka , Grant akati.
Zvikonzero Zvakanyorwa Kuti Urege Zvinodhaka
Kuti vagone kunyora nyaya dzavo, nyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu vakabvunzurudza vakadzi gumi nevaviri veCanada uye vakadzi veOhio vane gumi nemishonga uye doro kwemwedzi gumi nemasere. Akapa zvitsva zvekutanga kuAmerican Society of Criminology musangano muChicago.
"Kunyange zvazvo chidzidzo ichi chingave chisingarevi kuti vakadzi vose vanovhiringidzika, zvinoreva kuti zvimwe zvezvidzidzo zvekare zvingangodaro dzisingashandisi kupindwa muropa kwevakadzi.
Imwe pfungwa pfungwa yekupikisa ndeyekuti vakadzi vanosiya zvinodhaka newaini nekuda kwevana vavo, "akadaro Grant." Vana vakakosha, asi kana vakadzi ava vasingagoni kuzviraramira, vanowanzodzokerazve. "
Unarring Their Really Selves
Vakadziwo vaisagona kutsanangura "kuchinja" kwaiita kuti vadzoke ; nokuti vazhinji kuziva kwekudiwa kwekukunda kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka kwadzo kwaive kunonoka, Grant akawana. Uye kubudirira kwavo mukudzoka kwakanga kusingadi kuchinja maitiro avo kubva kune "kushaya chibharo" kune "vashandura," sezvinotsanangurwa nemabhuku, asi vanoona zvavari ivo chaivo.
Vakadzi vaiona kushandisa zvinodhaka newaini sechinhu chavakaita, kwete chimiro chavakanga vafunga. "Vanodzorera nhoroondo yekare kubva vasati vashandiswa, vasati vasvika pamhirizhonga uye kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka," akadaro. "Ndizvo chaizvoizvo iye zvino," vanodaro. 'Nguvo yaenda.' "
Kudzokera Kunetseka Neimwe Passion
Hafu yevakadzi mukudzidza yakashandisa purogiramu yakadai seAlcoholics Anonymous kana Narcotics Anonymous kukurira kusagadzikana, asi imwe hafu yakabudirira yega. Vose vevakadzi vakatsiva kukanganisa nemamwe mafaro muhupenyu hwavo, Grant akati, kubva pakudzidzira muviri kuti zviite basa rokuzvipira kuchikoro.
Vamwe iye zvino varikurudzira vamwe vakadzi vari kukunda kusvuta.
Vatori vechikamu vakatanga kushandisa madhiragi kana doro mumakore avo ekuyaruka kana kutanga kwema20s kuti vasvike kurwadziwa kwechisimba chemhuri uye kubatana, maererano naGrant, uyo akawedzera kuti vose vakataurirana vane nhengo yemhuri yaive chidhakwa. Izvi zviitiko zvinokonzera kukuvadza kusazviremekedza , musoro unonyanya kuve nyaya dzevakadzi.
Dhiyabhorosi Inobatanidza Nemhirizhonga Mumisha
"Handina kumbobvira ndanzwa murume akapindwa muropa, kusvikira nhasi, mubasa rangu, achitaura pamusoro pekusava nekuzviremekedza," akadaro Grant, uyo anotarisira kuti zvaakawana zvichave zvekushandisa kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka zvirongwa zvakare uye mamwe masangano anobatsira vakadzi.
Simba rakasimba pakati pemhirizhonga mumba uye kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka kunofanira kubvumidzwa nekutsvaira hutachiwana nzvimbo uye vakadzi vakarova vakadzikama, akati, iyo inowanzobata chirwere chimwe nechimwe muga woga.
Kunobva: Ohio University .