Unombosurukirwa here? Migumisiro yeimwe chidzidzo inoratidza kuti manzwiro ako anogona kuita kuti vanhu vakakupoteredza vave vakasurukirwa zvakare.
Maererano nemigumisiro yekudzidza, kusurukirwa kunogona kupararira zvakadai sechando chazara. Kunyange zvazvo chirwere chinotonhora kana chirwere chinogona kupararira kuburikidza nekubatwa kwemaoko, kusurukirwa kunogona kupararira kuburikidza nemapoka evanhu kuburikidza nekusawirirana kwevanhu.
Ongororo yekare yakawana kuti vanhu vakasurukirwa vanowanzoita kunyara, kuvengana, kuzvidya mwoyo, uye kushamwaridzana nevamwe . Vanowanzoshandura kududzira kushamwaridzana kwevamwe vanhu, nekuwanzoona humwe hutano huri mune vamwe sechimiro chokuramba kana kubviswa.
Chidzidzo chacho chaisanganisira vanhu vanopfuura 5 000 avo vakabvunzwa kuti vapedze mubvunzo wekusurukirwa, kupa mbiri yezvokurapa uye kugamuchira kuongorora kwemuviri kwemakore maviri kusvika kumakore kwegore gumi. Vatori vechikamu vakaratidzawo kuti shamwari dzavo nehama dzavo vaiva ani, uye vazhinji vevanhu ava vakabatanidzwawo muchidzidzo. Nokutsvaga pahutano hwemagariro evanhu vevatori vechikamu uye nhamba yezuva rega roga ravakawana gore negore, vatsvakurudzi vakakwanisa kuona kusurukirwa kwakapararira mumapoka ose.
Chidzidzo chacho chakawana kuti:
- Vanhu vanonzwa kusurukirwa kwemazuva anenge makumi mashanu kubva pagore rimwe nerimwe, paavhareji.
- Vanhu vanenge makumi mashanu-muzana vanowanzosurukirwa kana mumwe munhu wavanonyatsobatana naye anonzwa akasurukirwa.
- Vakadzi vanorondedzera vachiona kusurukirwa
- Kusurukirwa kunowanzowedzera kupararira mumadzimai emagariro evanhu pane zvevanhu.
- Kusurukirwa kunowanzopararira muhutano hwevamwe shamwari, panzvimbo yevaya vemhuri.
Iko Kunokanganisa Kusurukirwa
Pakutanga tsvakurudzo yakaratidza kuti kusurukirwa kunogona kukanganisa kushungurudzika, utano hwemwoyo, uye utachiona.
Asi iyi haisi yega nzvimbo iyo kusurukirwa kunotora. "Vanhu vakuru vari voga vanodya doro rakawandisa uye vanoita zvishoma kudyidzana kune avo vasina kusurukirwa," akatsanangura kudaro John Cacioppo, munyori webhuku rinonzi Loneliness: Human Nature uye Nezvavanoda Social Connection muhurukuro ne US News uye World Report . "Kudya kwavo kwakanyanya mumafuta, kurara kwavo hakusi kuderera, uye vanorondedzera kukanganiswa kwezuva masikati. Kusurukirwa kunokanganisawo mutemo wemasero emadziri mukati memuviri, zvichititemera kuti tive nekukwegura tisati takura."
Kusurukirwa, maererano nenyanzvi dzakawanda, hazvirevi kuti ndega. Pane kudaro, ndiyo pfungwa yekuve yoga uye yakasarudzwa inonyanyokosha. Semuenzaniso, ekoroji itsva inogona kunzwa yakasurukirwa pasinei nekunge yakakombwa nevanogara nevamwe vezera rako. Chirikadzi inogona kunzwa kusurukirwa pamusoro pezororo kunyange zvazvo yakakombererwa nemhuri yake neshamwari.
Kusurukirwa Kunowedzera Kuwirirana
Vatsvakurudzi vanoratidzawo kuti kusurukirwa kuri kuwedzera kuve muUnited States. Pakaongororwa sechikamu chebhuku remibvunzo ye1984, vapinduri vanowanzotaurirwa vane zvitatu zvakavanzika. Apo mubvunzo wacho wakabvunzwa zvakare muna 2004, mhinduro yakawanda yaive yakavimbiswa zero.
Izvi zvinosuruvarisa sezvo nyanzvi dzinofunga kuti haisi yehuwandu hwekushamwaridzana kwevanhu hunorwisana kusurukirwa, asi iyo inhu . Kuva nevanenge vatatu kana vana vashamwari vepedyo zvakakwana kudzivisa kusurukirwa uye kuderedza mamiriro akaipa ehutano anobatanidza nemamiriro ezvinhu epfungwa.
Maererano neCacioppo, "Sosaiti inogona kubatsirwe nekurwisana nevanhu vari munharaunda kuti vabatsire kugadzirisa mararamiro emagariro evanhu uye kugadzira chidziviriro chekudzivirira kusurukirwa kunogona kuchengetedza musungo wose kuti urege kusunungura."
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