Varwere vanowanzove nemaonero akasiyana ehukama kupfuura varapi vanoita
Vatengi vanowanzowedzera hukama hwepedyo nevarapi . Mushure mezvose, panguva dzechirongwa zvese vanogara mukamuri vachikurukurirana nyaya dzomunhu oga, asi izvi zvinoita kuti varwere uye vanachiremba vashamwari here? Vamwe vanhu zvirokwazvo vanofunga kuti zvinodaro, asi vanachiremba vanodzidziswa kusaona ukama hwavo nevatengi nenzira yakadaro.
Chokwadi Pamusoro peArapist-Client Relationship
Psychotherapy ndeyekuda kubatana kusina kufanana.
Iwe, mutengi, unotanga, uye mushandi kazhinji haaiti. Izvi zvakakosha kuitira kutarisa pane zvinetso zvako chete. Ko kuvimba kunogona sei kukura muhukama hwakadaro humwechete? Sezvo mutapi asingatauri zvakanyanya, iwe unotarisira kuuya kuzotarisa mutano semuteereri akachengeteka, ane hanya uyo akazvipira kukubatsira kuti uone matambudziko ako , kwete murape.
Ushamwari, kune rumwe rutivi, rwunobatanidzwa rutivi rwechipiri. Mune hukama hwakawanda, tinozarura zvishoma nezvishoma apo mumwe munhu anozarurawo. Sezvo shamwari yako, ndinoziva zvinhu zvakawanda pamusoro pako, uye iwe unoziva zvinhu zvakawanda pamusoro pangu. Tinowanzogovana zviitiko kunze kwekugara muimba, tichitaura.
Chirwere chinogona kunge chiri ukama hwehukama, zvichienderana nehutano hunobatanidzwa uye chiremba wezvokufungidzira. Nhoroondo yekare, vamwe psychoanalytically vakatungamira vanachiremba vakatora marwadzo kuti vasati vaudze chero chinhu chavo kune varwere vavo.
Vakatenda kuti izvi zvinogona kukanganisa maitiro evarwere nenzira isingafariri inozivikanwa sekuwedzerwa. Vakawanda vemazuva ano vane pfungwa dzepfungwa uye vanyengeri, zvisinei, vanoziva kuti vanogara vazarura zvinhu zvavo; chinangwa chechiremba hachisi chokuvanza unhu hwake asi kukurudzira rudzi rweukama hunobvumira kukurukurirana kwakakwana uye kuongororwa kwezvinhu zvose zvinoitika pakati pechiremba uye murwere.
Sei Chiremba Wako Asingagoni Kuva Shamwari Yako
Mushandi wako angangodaro haasi kuzova shamwari yako nokuti izvozvo zvinogona kusika izvo zvinonzi kudanana . Ukama huviri hunoitika apo vanhu vari mumhando mbiri dzakasiyana dzehukama panguva imwe chete. Ukama hwakawanda hune hukama husina maturo mukurapa. Semuenzaniso, hazvina maturo kune chiremba kurapa shamwari yepedyo kana hama. Icho chisiriwo chikonzero chemuongorori kuti ave neukama hwepabonde nemutengi.
Imwe yezvinetso nehukama hwehukama ndeyekuti dambudziko muhukama humwe, sehukama kana ukama hwepabonde, zvinogona kukonzera matambudziko muukama hwehutano . Kana iwe uchitsamwira kwandiri nokuti handina kuenda kumutambo wako, zvingava zvakaoma iwe kuti uzarure mukurapa. Mukuwedzera pakuva hukama hwemhando mbiri, hukama hwepabonde nevatengi hunoshandisa simba rinowanikwa mune rumwe rutivi rwehutano hwehukama hwehutano. Ukama hwakadaro hwakashata pane dzimwe nzvimbo.
Ko Murapi Wangu Anokwanisa Kuve Shamwari Yangu Kana Ndapera Here?
Kunyange zvazvo isingazivikanwi, ushamwari hunogona kukura kana wapedza kurapa. Zvisinei, maitiro ehutungamiri anotsvaga pamusoro pezvizvi nokuda kwezvikonzero zvakasiyana-siyana, kusanganisira pfungwa yokuti kuwedzerwa kwehukama hwehukama uye kusagadzikana kwemasimba kwakagadzirwa mukurapa hakuzomboperi zvachose.
Kana iwe zvino uri kurapwa, tarisira kuti mushonga wako ave mumwe munhu ari nyore kutaura naye. Kana iye ane ushamwari, izvi zvingave bhonasi yakawedzerwa. Asi yeuka kuti kurapa hakuna kufanana neshamwari. Nokushandisa ushamwari hwehutano uye hwehutano hunowedzera mukurapa, iwe uchave nani kukwanisa kuchinja kwaunoshandisa muupenyu hwako.