Kubvunza mumwe munhu zvezuva kunofanana nekugadzira chero chipiro chekukumbira . Zvinosanganisira kutora danho rekuita kuti mumwe munhu azive zvauri kufunga uye manzwiro, achikumbira kuti chii chichaita kuti ufare, uye panguva imwechete kutora manzwiro omumwe munhu kuti afunge.
Kana iwe uchitambura nehutano hwehutano hwevanhu (SAD) , zvingava zvakaoma kufungidzira kuti ungabvunza sei munhu pane zuva.
Ko kuonana chaiyo kwaizoita sei?
Sample Script yekukumbira mumwe Munhu kunze
Heino script raunogona kushandisa kuti udzidze kubvunza zuva.
Sarah ane hanya nemurume akanaka chaizvo uyo anoshanda naye asi asina kumboshinga ushingi kumubvunza. Akamirira, achitarisira kuti zvimwe achamubvunza, asi anofunga zvakare kuti angave akanyara kuti atange kufamba.
Nzira yakanakisisa yaSara ndeyekugadzirisa chikumbiro nenzira isingaiti sechikamu chekukurukurirana. Achanzwa asina kunyanya kuzvidya mwoyo nenzira iyo (kune ngozi shoma ye "kurondedzerwa" kurambwa ) uye mumwe munhu anogona kuti kwete kunze kwekunzwa zvakaipa.
Sarah: "Ndave ndichida chaizvo kuona mutsva (isa zita remuchina wevhidhiyo). Wakazviona here?"
Panzvimbo yekukumbira zvakananga murume wacho zvakananga pazuva, anomupa mukana wokukurudzira kukurukura kana achida.
Cute guy: "Aiwa, handina kumbozviona, asi ndinoda kuenda.Vashamwari vangu vanogara vakabatikana zvokuti zvakaoma kuungana pamwe nekugadzirira zvirongwa.
Sarah: "Hongu, ndaifunga kuti zvakaratidzika zvakanaka chaizvo. Kana iwe usati wakabatikana, zvichida tingaenda pamwe chete?"
Cute guy: "Chokwadi, izvozvo zvingava zvinonakidza."
Sarah: "Zvakanaka, izuva. Tarira, rega ndikupe nhamba yangu yefoni uye iwe unogona kutumira mameseji kana kudana kuti undiudze kana angakushandira iwe."
Paunenge uchitaura nemumwe munhu, iva nechokwadi chekumwemwerera, kutarisa maziso uye kuchengetedza mutauro wako kuti uve ushamwari uye uzarurire.
Kana mumwe munhu asingagamuchiri hurukuro yako kana asingagamuchiri kukoka kwako, usazvitora iwe pachako. Hapana chinhu chinofanira kuwanikwa nekugara pakuramba. Pane kudaro, vongai pachenyu nekukumbira.
Kunobva:
Markway BG, Carmin CN, Pollard CA, Flynn T. Kudzingwa kweKubwinya: Rubatsiro rweKunetseka Kwevanhu uye Phobia. Oakland, CA: Harbinger; 1992.