Rubin's Scales of Liking and Loving

Kuenzanisa rudo rwekudanana

Vatsvakurudzi vakatsanangura dzidziso dzakasiyana-siyana kuti vanzwisise maratiro e rudo, uye vazhinji vakatoedza kuronga nzira dzekuyera manzwiro akadaro. Yaiva mutano wezvemagariro evanhu Zick Rubin uyo akanga ari mumwe wevatsvakurudzi vekutanga kukura chiridzwa chakagadzirirwa kutevedzera rudo.

Maererano naRubin, rudo rukuru runoumbwa nezvinhu zvitatu:

1. Kusungirirwa: Chido chekuchengetwa uye kuva nemumwe munhu. Kuonana kwepanyama uye kugamuchirwa kunokoshawo zvikamu zvekubatanidza.
2. Kuchengeta: Kukoshesa mufaro wemumwe munhu uye zvido zvake zvakadai sekuda kwako.
3. Kushamwaridzana: Kugovera pfungwa dzega, manzwiro, uye zvishuwo nemumwe munhu.

Kubva pane izvi maonero ekuda rudo, Rubin akatanga mibvunzo miviri kuti aenzane nemhando idzi. Pakutanga, Rubin akawana mibvunzo makumi mapfumbamwe nemasere yakagadzirirwa kuongorora mafungiro ayo munhu anotora pamusoro pevamwe.

Mibvunzo iyi yakarongwa maererano kana kuti kwete iyo yakaratidza manzwiro ekuda kana rudo. Iyi mibvunzo miviri yemibvunzo yakatanga kuendeswa kune vadzidzi vepasimariate 198 uye chimwe chiitiko chekuongorora chaiitwa ipapo. Zvigumisiro zvakabvumira Rubin kuti aone mibvunzo 13 ye'kuda 'uye nemibvunzo 13 ye'kuda' iyo yaive yakatendeka matanho emhando idzi mbiri.

Mibvunzo muRubin's Liking uye Loving Scale

Mienzaniso inotevera yakafanana nemimwe yemibvunzo yakashandiswa muRubin's Liking uye Loving Scale:

Zvinhu Kuyera Kuda

1. Ndinonzwa kuti _____________ munhu anogadzikana.
2. Ndine chivimbo mumaonero a ______________.
3. Ndinofunga kuti ______________ inowanzogadziriswa zvakanaka.
4. __________ ndomumwe wevanhu vanofarirwa zvikuru ini ndinoziva.

Zvinhu Kuyera Kuda

1. Ndinonzwa kunzwa kwakasimba kwekutora kune ____________.

1. Ndinoifarira apo __________ inopindira mukati mangu.
2. Ndinogona kuita chero chinhu chipi zvacho nekuda kwe _____________.
3. Ndinoona zviri nyore kusava nehanya nezvikanganiso zve __________.

Tsvakurudzo yaRubin pamusoro Pechirevo Chavo cheRudo

Rubin's scales of liking and loving gave a support for his theory of love. Mune chidzidzo chekuona kana zviyero zvichinyatsosiyanisa pakati pekuda nekuda, Rubin akakumbira vateveri vanoverengeka kuti vazadze mibvunzo yake maererano nemafungiro avo nezvemumwe wavo uye neshamwari yakanaka . Zvigumisiro zvakaratidza kuti shamwari dzakanaka dzakawana zvakakwirira pamakwikwi akaenzana, asi chete vamwe vakakurukurwa vakakurudzirwa kumusoro pachiyero chekuda.

Mukutsvakurudza kwake, Rubin akacherechedza humwe hutsika hwakasiyana hwakasiyana pakati pemadhiramu akasiyana ekuda rudo. Semuenzaniso, akawana kuti vatori vechikamu vakakurukura zvakakwirira pachirongwa cherudo vakashandisawo nguva yakawanda nguva vachitarisana mumeso avo kana vachienzaniswa nevaya vairatidzika sevasina simba murudo.

Rudo harusi pfungwa yekoni uye naizvozvo zvakaoma kuyera. Zvisinei, zviyero zvaRubin zvekuda uye rudo zvinopa nzira yekuyera manzwiro akaoma e rudo. Muna 1958, nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Harry Harlow akaratidza kuti "kudai kana rudo kana rudo rune hanya, vanapfungwa dzepfungwa vakundikana mubasa ravo.

Zvishoma zvatinoziva nezverudo hazvipfuuri kutarisa zviri nyore, uye zvishoma zvatinonyora pamusoro pazvo zvakanyorwa zviri nani nevanyori nevanyori vese. "

Rubin akaongororwa akacherechedza danho rinokosha rinoenda mberi pakunzwisisa kwedu rudo rwemurudo uye akaratidza nzira yekutsvakurudza mune ramangwana panyaya ino inonakidza.

_References:

_{Harlow, HF (1958). Mhando yorudo. Chiremba wepfungwa dzeAmerica, 13, 673-685.}

_{Rubin, Zick. 1970. Kuyera kwekuda rudo. Zvinyorwa zveMunhu uye Social Psychology, 16, 265-273.}