Kuita Shamwari chikamu chinokosha cheHupenyu Hwakapfuma
Kana iwe uchitambudzika nehutano hwehupfumi (SAD) , kana kuti unonyara, zvingaita sezviri nyore kudzivisa kuita shamwari uye kupedza nguva uri woga pane. Zvisinei, kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti vanhu vane shamwari dzepedyo vanorarama kwenguva yakareba uye vane hutano hwakanaka. Mukuwedzera, avo vane shamwari dzepedyo vanogona kukwanisa kurarama nekufa kwemumwe wako kana zvimwe hupenyu hwekushanduka.
Kune avo vane SAD , iwe unogona kuva neshamwari asi usingazivi kuti sei. Pasi pane nhanho-nhanho mirayiridzo yekukubatsira kuti uwedzere mararamiro ako evanhu uye tine tariro yekuita shamwari shomanana dzakanaka munzira.
Nzira Yokuita Neshamwari Idzva
Iwe usati waedza kuita shamwari itsva, zvinokosha kuti upedze nguva yakati uchishanda iwe pachako . Kana iwe wakanyatsotarisana nemunhu iwe, zviri nyore kuva kutaura nevamwe.
Shandura pane zviitiko zvino, tora chido chekuita; chinhu chipi nechipi chaunogona kuita kuti uwedzere kunyatsogadzikana newauri iwe chichaita kuti zvive nyore kuita shamwari. Tsvaga zvaunofarira kuti uwane vanhu vanofunga.
Nhanho yechipiri pakuita shamwari iri kuwana shamwari . Apo uchitarisa kuti ungava shamwari, nzvimbo dzakanakisisa kutanga nadzo ndezvakanyanya nyore. Unoshanda nevamwe here? Unoziva mumwe munhu ane denderedzwa guru rehama here? Ungagona here kubatana neboka kana sangano kuti uwedzere nhamba yevanhu vamunobata?
Zvakakosha kuti usanyanya kunyanya pakutanga. Munhu wose anogona kunge ari shamwari; Kutanga kwekutanga hakusi iyo ndiyo yakanakisisa zviratidzo zvekuti ndiani angava shamwari yekusingaperi. Funga kubvunza waunoshanda navo kudya kwemanheru, kubatana nebhuku rebhubhu pakuraibhurari kana kuzvipira kune imwe nzvimbo isingabatsiri kusangana nevanhu vatsva uye vanogona kuva shamwari.
Iva nechokwadi chokuti uwane ruzivo rwekubatana kwevanhu vamunosangana navo. Kunyangwe iri nhamba yavo yefoni kana kuti kubatanidza pamapeji avo ezvekugarisana nevamwe, tsvaga nzira yekuvaitira.
Nhanho inonyanya kukosha mukugadzira shamwari ndeyese kugamuchira memo uye kugadzira zvirongwa nevamwe . Ita nepaunogona napo kuti urege kubvisa chero mapepa. Kana iwe ukadzorera vanhu pasi kazhinji zvakakwana vanozorega kukukumbira kuti uite zvinhu.
Nechiratidzo chimwe chete, iwe haufaniri kutarisira nguva dzose mumwe munhu kuronga. Kunyangwe kuronga kunogona kuva basa rakaoma kune avo vane SAD, zvakakosha kuratidza vamwe kuti iwe unofarira kwavari uye unoda kuungana pamwechete.
Kana uchangotanga kuumba ushamwari, zvinokosha kuti urambe uri mukutaurirana . Nokufamba kwenguva iwe uchauya kuzoziva kuti kazhinji vamwe vanhu vanogara sei mukutaura. Iva nechokwadi chekuita chikamu chako kuti uone shamwari dzako itsva uye uronga zvirongwa. Nekusununguka kwekukurukurirana kweInternet, hapana chikonzero chipi zvacho nei iwe usingakwanisi kuramba uchikurukura neavo waunosangana nawo.
Mazano:
Usatarisira zviitiko zvenguva pfupi. Kuvaka ushamwari kunotora nguva, kushanda uye kuzvipira. Ita kuti ushamwari hutsva huve chinhu chinonyanya kukosha, asi ona kuti munhangemutange kusvika kumagumo ndeye marathon, kwete sprint.
Kana waita shamwari itsva, chenjerera kuti usatora zvishoma. Ita kuti ushamwari hwako huve chinhu chinokosha pane izvo zvingave zvisina kunaka kwauri.
Shamwari dzakanaka hadzina kutsoropodza, usareva makuhwa uye usatonga mumwe nomumwe.
Usambofa wakakanganisa zvaunotenda, maitiro kana tsika nekuda kweshamwari.
Shoko Rinobva
Kuita shamwari kunotora nguva, asi kana iwe uchinzwa kuti haugoni kusangana nevanhu vatsva kana kuti pfungwa yekuedza kusangana nevanhu vatsva inotyisa kana inopisa, inogona kunge iri mwari fungiro yekukurukura nemushonga . Kushanda mukurapa SAD kunogona kukubatsira kuti ufare uye unakidzwe nekugara kune vamwe vanhu vakawanda. Kana uchinge uine hanya nemagariro evanhu uri pasi pesimba, iwe unofanira kuwana zviri nyore kutaura nevanhu vatsva uye kutanga ushamwari huripo.
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