Kutsvakurudza kunoratidza kuti kutaridzika kwakanaka hakuiti kukuvimbisa kwevechiduku
Zvinowanzotenda kuti kunaka uye kuzvikudza kunofanana pamwe chete, asi izvi zvingave zvisina kudaro kune vechidiki, maererano nekuongorora kwakabudiswa mu Journal of Clinical Child uye Adolescent Psychology .
Mifananidzo yevanhu vanosvika makumi mapfumbamwe nemakumi mapfumbamwe nemashanu kubva kune gumi nemakumi mapfumbamwe namashanu kusvikira pamakore gumi nemashanu, vakayerwa pameso ekukwezva uye vachienzanisa nemaitiro avo ekuzviremekedza kwemakore mashanu.
Vakaona kuti vechidiki avo vakaverengwa sevanonyanya kutarisa zvechokwadi vaiva nemaonero ekutanga ezvokuzviremekedza kupfuura vamwe vavo vasina kunaka.
Pamusoro penzira yekudzidza, vakawana kuti kune vakawanda, kuzvidzora kwakawedzera uye kwakanyanya kusimba sezvo vechidiki vakashandura vachiri vaduku, kunyanya kune avo vanotaura nezvepamusoro yezvikoro.
Uyezve, vakawana kuti vasikana vaiva nehuwandu hwekuzviremekedza kupfuura vakomana vose-uye kunyanya, vechidiki vechidiki vakaverengwa sevakakosha kupfuura vakomana.
Chikonzero Nei Kurumbidzwa Kunodzivisa Kuzvivimba
Vanyori vekudzidza vanopa tsanangudzo dzakawanda (kwete kuongororwa mukudzidza kwavo) kuti nei vechidiki vakawanda vanoyevedza vangave vasina maonero ezvishoma:
- Kuchinja Panguva Yekuberekwa: Vanoratidza kuti vaduku vanoyevedza vanogona kuona kuchinja kana kuitika kwekuyaruka sekusvibisa maitiro avo, nepo vasikana vasati vaduku vachiri kuyaruka vanogona kuona shanduko idzi seine simba rakanaka pakuonekwa kwavo.
- Kunyanya Kutarisira: Zvingaita kuti vezera, vadzidzisi, uye vabereki vanowanzonyatsoziva kuti maitiro epamusoro ehutano hwemagariro evanhu uye zvidzidzo kubva kune vana vakanaka. Izvo zvinotarisirwa zvinogona kunge zvakanyanya kukurira vana uye kugadzira pfungwa yekuzvipira-kana kusazviremekedza kana vakafunga kuti havagoni kurarama maererano nezvimwe zvinotarisirwa nevanhu.
- Pfungwa yeKunakidza: Zvinyoronyoro, vechidiki vaduku vangangodaro vaine maonero akasiyana ekukwezva kwavo kudarika boka rekutsvakurudza rakaratidza mifananidzo yavo. Zvichida kuti zvinhu zvakawanda zvinoita kuti munhu afunge nezvekukwezva, izvo zvisina kuverengwa mumudzidzi.
Low Self Self-Esteem and Depression
Inofungidzirwa kuti kuzvikudza kwakaderera kana kusingagadziki kunogona kunge kuine ngozi yekuora mwoyo . Zvinonzwisisikawo kuti munguva yekuyaruka kana vana vachiwanzopfuura nekuyaruka , kuwedzera kwekuora mwoyo kunowedzera, kunyanya kuvasikana.
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti kuzviderera kwakanyanya hakuiti nguva dzose kuora mwoyo. Zvechokwadi, kukwezva hakuiti nguva dzose kunokonzera kuora mwoyo. Zvisinei, vabereki vanofanira kuziva kuti mwana anotadza kuzvidzora pasi pasinei nekuonekwa uye angave akakanganisa zvikuru mumakore ekuyaruka.
Taura nechipatara chevana vako kana mumwe mupi wehutano hwepfungwa kana akazvidzivirira uye zvimwe zviratidzo nezviratidzo zvekuora mwoyo, zvakadai se:
- Kusuruvara
- Kusununguka kwevanhu
- Kusvibiswa
- Manzwiro emhosva
- Kudzidza kunodzika
- Zvirwere zvisingaoneki zvomuviri
- Chirongwa chekudya uye kurara chinoshanduka
Kupa rubatsiro rwakawedzerwa, kukurudzirwa, uye rudo panguva yaunenge uchiedza makore ekuyaruka makore ekutanga anogona kungova nemigumisiro yakanaka mukukura kwevana vako.
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