Iko 12 Tsika dzeAA neAl-Anon
Nokusaudza mafungiro pane "nhau dzekunze," mapoka gumi nematanhatu anotarisira kupokana nharo, zvose zviri pachena uye mukati mekudyidzana pachako. Uyu mutemo unobatsirawo nhengo kuchengeta chinangwa chechinangwa chavo.
Tsika 10 : Kunwa Doro Anonymous (uye Al-Anon) haana maonero kune dzimwe nyaya; saka zita reAA harifaniri kutorwa mumakakatanwa evanhu.
Sezvakataurwa naAn-Anon kumatanho gumi nemaviri nemitemo inoti, " Al-Anon haabatanidzi nedzidziso ipi neipi, sangano, sangano rezvematongerwo enyika, sangano kana sangano. Hazvibvumirano mune gakava chero ripi zvaro, uye haritsigiri kana kupikisa chero chinokonzera.
Saizvozvowo, Alcoholics Anonymous haakwereti zita kune dzimwe nhengo, dzakadai sedzimba dzokurapa unyanzvi. Iwe unogona kuona zviziviso zvezvirongwa zvekurapa dzinoti nde "12-nhanho yakatevedzerwa," asi hauzooni chero iyo inoti inobatana neAA
Kushandisa Kutevedzera Maitiro Evanhu Pamwe Chete
Kana tsika iyi ichiteverwa, inoshanda kuchengetedza hukama husepo kubva pakuita nharo dzepakati pevanhu, asi mukuru wacho anogonawo kushandiswa kune "zvinhu zvose" zvemunhu mumwe nomumwe.
Somuenzaniso, kana nhengo dzeAl-Anon dzichishandisa chirevo ichi kumararamiro avo kana mumwe munhu achidzorera - kana zvakakosha, kusava nekugadzirisa-kunobva kune imwe nyaya, vachivabvumira kuti "vadzivirire" kubva kune zvinetso zvevamwe uye vatarise ivo pachavo kurasika.
Vashanyi kunzvimbo ino vakatora nguva yekugovana ruzivo rwavo, simba, uye tariro paMutsika 10. Heino maonero avo:
Kubatana kuBhuku
Bhuku Guru reMamwe Doro Asingazivikanwi akafanana neBhaibheri kana tikatevera shoko sezvazvakanyatsorongwa hapana kana chikonzero chekuunza gakava, kana kunze vari kuedza kuchinja zvazviri (pamwe nevanenge vari mukati).
Mumakore mazhinji machechi akauya nemafungiro akasiyana-siyana pamusoro pezvakanyorerwa, achisiya sangano nemarudzi ose ezvitsva uye nzira dzakagadziridzwa yekushandura Shoko raMwari ravanofunga kuti rinonzwisisika - uye mukushanduka uku takaona vazhinji vakasiyana machechi anosvika. Mune AA, kunyange zvazvo isina kukwana, mumutemo wayo wegumi unoedza zvakanyanya kudarika chero humwe hukama hwandakaona kuti ndigare nemharidzo sezvazvakanyorwa.
Izvo zvinogona kuva nezvimwe zvinokanganisa, asi handisati ndazviona zvichiparadzaniswa sezvandakaona machechi akawanda achiita, zvichienderana nekukakavadzana kwevanhu uye maonero, uye ndinotenda nokuti tinokoshesa Tsika Yedu yegumi, uye tinoita zvakanakisisa kudzivirira ushamwari, nokuti yedu inozotevera ikozvino-kwete apo patinofa nekuda kwemigumisiro yakaipisisa yechirwere chedu. Isu isu tose tinoziva kuti tine basa rekuchengetedza AA isu pachedu sezvazviri kana isu tichiparadzwa tisati tambofunga nezveimwe nzvimbo yakadai sedenga, saka ticharamba tichitevedzera tsika yedu yegumi.
Alethea
Chengetedza zviri nyore
Zvinodhaka Anonymous haaigona kuita asi kufa kana zvisiri zvechi tsika ichi. Kana AA "zvepamutemo" akabata mafungiro panyaya dzakasiyana-siyana kunze kwepurogiramu inogona kushandiswa kurega nhengo dzisingabvumirani. Ndanzwa vanhu vakawanda vasina kururama vachireva AA sechitendero, kana kwete chetsika 10 inogona kuitika kuva iyo chete nemitemo yakatarwa muNew York uye isu tose takatarisira kuti titevere mupfungwa.
Tingava sangano rezvematongerwe enyika.
Ndinotenda kuti tsika iyi inokosha kumunhu mumwechete weAA pamwe chete. Dzimwe nguva "mafungiro" kana kuti chirwere chekurapa chinotapurirwa seAA, zvinhu zvakaita se "ani naani anosvuta fodya haasi kunyatsozvidya mwoyo" kana patinoedza kusava nemishonga Medical Doctors inosangana nevamwe nhengo dzehutano uye nezvemishonga. Ini ndakatoverenga muBhokisi razvino rekupedzisira pamusoro penhengo iyo iyo yaibatsira iyo yakamuudza kuti yaifanira kutora zuva idzva rekushungurudza nokuti raive nekuvhiyiwa uye raifanira kuva nemishonga inorwadza.
Aya maonero evanhu anogona kupfuudzwa kune vatsva sezvikamu zvakakosha zvepurogiramu iyo muchokwadi ivo vari panze nyaya.
Ndinonzwa kuti zvakakosha kuti ndichengetedze tsika 10 mupfungwa pandinoenda mumisangano, murume kana mukadzi ane ruzivo rudiki rwechirongwa ichi chinenge chiripo mushure mekunge munhu wese anokosha pane imwe nzvimbo.
Maryann
Tsika 10: An Oxymoron?
Panofungidzira, iyo inoshamisa tsika. Muzvokwadi, pane zvakawanda zvinokakavadzana nemafungiro ayo Anodhaka Anonymous World Services, Inc. (AAWS) inowanzobatanidzwa.
Sezvo kutaura kwekare kwaenda, nekusaita chisarudzo iwe uri kuita sarudzo. Izvo zvinoenda nekusava nepfungwa.
Nokusava nehanya, munyaya, AA haigone kuzviisa pane imwe nzvimbo kunze kwekusarerekera. Kana kusapindira mune zvematongerwo enyika, hapana chakanaka kana chakaipa kana kuti pane mikana yezvinetso zvinokonzera AA kubva chinangwa chayo chekutanga chekubatsira vanodhakwa kuti vadzoke kana ivo (doro) vachida kuzviita.
Iyi Tsika ndiyo imwe mhando ye oxymoron. Tora zvinodhakwa gumi uye ugobvunza maonero avo. Iwe unogona kunge uine maonero gumi nemaviri. Vose vanodhakwa vane maonero, vazhinji vavo vane simba. Kakavadzana ndizvo zvinoita kuti AA ikure uye kubudirire mune zvekunamata. Yakave iyo iyo kubvira kubvira AA yakatanga. Zvose zvinotanga kutanga musangano ndekutsamwa uye mubhodhoro wekofi.
AAWS pachayo inopinda mumatare ehurumende anotaridzirwa kuchengetedza pfuma. Nokuita kudaro, AAWS inotyora zvakavanzika uye kusingazivikanwi kwevamwe nhengo dzeAA uye saka inokumbira kukakavadzana kwevanhu.
AA the Fellowship uye AAWS - bhizinesi uye kuparidzira umambo - zvakasiyana siyana. Sekushamwaridzana Kwemweya, nhengo dzeAA, misangano, uye mapoka anobatsira kuchengetedza iyi Tsika sezvazvakagadzirirwa nhengo dzedu dzheyo . Sebhizinesi, AAWS yakawanzoputsa tsika iyi uye inotarisa AA iri pangozi. Kungofungidzira iwe pachako.
Mitchell