Vakawanda Havakwanisi Kunwa Zvishoma, Asi Zvakanyanya Kupera Pavanowana
Rimwe remibvunzo inowanzosangana nevanhu vanoedza kurega kunwa inobvunza kana vachifanira kumira nokusingaperi. Hazviiti here kuti vadzidze kunwa zvakakwana? Vanokwanisa kuva vanwiwa here? Ichokwadi here kuti havagoni kunwa imwe?
Ichokwadi chiripo kune vamwe vanhu vanorega kunwa kwenguva yakati, zvichida vakatobatana neAlcoholics Anonymous , avo vakazoona kuti vanogona kudzokera kunwa doro zvine mwero.
Mikana ndeyekuti, ava vanonwa zvinogona kunge vasiri vasiri doro pakutanga , asi vanongodhakwa zvinodhaka kana vanonwa doro.
Kune avo vari vakadhakwa doro, kuedza kudzokera kukunyorera zvakanyanyisa hazviwanzoshanda. Vakawanda vakaedza uye vakakundikana:
Kuedza Kudhakwa Kwakawanda Kunotyisa Gamble
Vakawanda vanodhakwa vakaedza kudzokera kunzvimbo yekudhakwa kwevanhu. Vaya vakaita saizvozvo vakabudirira vangave vakanetsa dambudziko , kutanga, uye kwete zvinodhakwa. Iko Moderation Management chirongwa yakabatsira vazhinji kudzidza kudzidza zvakanaka, asi hazvisi zvevanhu vose.
Zvisinei, avo avo vakasiya kunwa nekuda kwematambudziko akapfuura, uye zvino vanoedza kudzokera kumashure ekudzora kana kutengesa, vanokundikana kuzviita. Havangagoni kunwa imwechete kana maviri uye vanomira, kana zvisingaiti nguva ipi zvayo yakasara.
Kunze kwe-Kudzora Kunwa
Mushure mezvose, ichi ndicho chimwe chezviratidzo zvekudhakwa kwepakutanga: mumwe munhu uyo paanenge atanga kunwa haagoni kutaurira kana kudzora kuti doro rinopedzisira rava kupedza sei.
Vakawanda vanodhakwa vanotaura ivo pachavo vachifunga kuti vanogona kudzokera ku "zvinowanzo" kunwa kunowana kuti vanokurumidza kudzokera kune yakachengeteka kana kunwa doro . Dambudziko nderokuti nenguva iyo pavanoona kuti havakwanise kuderedza kunwa kwavo, yakanyanyisa. Zvinotora makore akawanda kuti vatsvezve zvakare uye zvinosuruvarisa kuti vamwe havamboitizve .
Kana iwe ukarega kunwa nokuti doro rako rinenge risingakwanisi kuzvidzora, mukana iwe haungakwanisi kuzvidzora kana ukatora zvakare kunwa. Kana zviri izvo, zvinogona kunge zvakanyanya kutyisa kutora.
Kukundikana nekunwa kunwa
Bluesky anoudza nyaya yake yekuedza kuenzanisa kunwa. "Ndave ndichiedza kuenzanisa kunwa kwangu kubvira ndichiri kuyaruka, uye ini ndiri mumakore angu makumi mana.Ndakazosvika pakuziva kuti, kwandiri, kuzvidzora ndiyo nzira chete.Ndakava nekuchengetedza uye ndakaipa imwe yekuedza Iyo haina kumboshanda kwandiri, asi zvakadaro, ini handidzidze.
"Iwe unoona, ndangariro yangu inosarudza .. Ndinowanzokanganwa kurwara kwandaiita zuva rega rega, hangover, kuvhunduka, puking, kunetseka pamusoro pokuti ndakazviratidza sei kune vamwe vanhu, kuchema kwandakaita zuva rimwe nerimwe pandakazomuka Ini ndainge ndichizvirova, uye zvakadaro ndakaramba ndichidaro ndiani anozviita?
"Zvingave kuti iwe hausi doro, asi yeuka kuti zvinopfuura rimwechete kamwechete pazuva nokuda kwemukadzi kana mvura mbiri pazuva kuti munhu awane zvinetso zvehutano. Iwe unogona kuenzanisa kune rimwe doro nezuva uye dzimwe nguva nguva nenguva Kana kuti pane nguva apo iwe haugone kuzvidzora uye kubata?
"Kazhinji, kana tichifanira kutonga zvakanyanya pamusoro pokunwa kwedu, ndezvokuti zvakatorwa kudzora kwatiri.Zvamwe zvisina kudaro, nei tichizofanira kurwisanazve?"