Varume vanowanzoshungurudza vamwe vavo pamazuva ekunwa
Hazvibatsiri kana iwe wakarurama kana gayana, vose vakaroorana vanogona kuitirwa zvechisimba mumhuri yehukama kana doro rinokandwa mumusanganiswa.
Chii chakasiyana ndechokuti chisimba chemuviri chave chichigadziriswa mukati mehutano hwepabonde imwechete, uye vakaroorana muhukama hwepabonde havakwanisi kutsvaga rubatsiro nekuda kwezvishoma zviripo zvemugari weGBBTQ.
Nhamba pamusoro pehukama hwehukama hwehukama uye doro
Doro rinoshandisa uye kudhakwa kwezvinodhaka zvose zvakabatanidzwa zvakanyanya kuhukama hwepedyo hwemhirizhonga. Maererano neNational Council pamusoro peAlcoholism uye Drug Dependence, doro rinowanzokonzera chisimba apo anorwisa uye anenge achinetseka vanoziva. Zvikamu zviviri kubva muzvitatu zvevarwere zvakarwiswa nemumwe munhu wepedyo (kusanganisira iye zvino kana kuti waimbova naye, mukomana kana musikana) uye akataura kuti doro rakanga rabatanidzwa.
Zvinenge zviitiko zvinokwana mazana mashanu zvishanu zvinowanikwa gore roga rega pakati pevanhu vane hukama hwepedyo uye vanosanganisira vanhu vainge vachinwa.
Kudzidza Kuita Chisimba Kwemunhu Nevanhu Muhukama Hwakanaka
Kana iri kuuya kune vakaroorana vakarurama, varume vanonwa doro uye vane chikonzero chekuita zvechisimba kune avo vavakidzani vavo vanowanzoita zvechisimba pamazuva avo vanonwa doro, maererano nehuwandu hwekutsvaga 2003 yakataurwa mu "Journal of Consulting uye Clinical Psychology . "
Iyi nyanzvi yakadzidza yakaongorora 135 varume vevakadzi vane hutsinye vanopinda muhurongwa hwekudhakwa kwekudhakwa kwemwedzi gumi nemashanu uye vakawana hukama hunokosha pakati pekunwa kwevarume nechisimba chinopikisana nemumwe wavo.
Izvo zvinokonzerwa nehurume-ku-vakadzi zvechisimba zvakange zvakapetwa ka 11 mumazuva apo varume vacho vanonwa doro kupfuura pamazuva asina doro .
Kuenzaniswa nemazuva ekunwa doro, zvinokonzerwa nemhirizhonga yevarume nemadzimai pamazuva ekunwisa zvakanyanya nevanhurume (kunywa zvitanhatu kana kupfuura zvinwiwa mumaawa makumi maviri nemana) zvakapetwa kanopfuura 18 uye zvakakosha zvechisimba chakanyanya kupfuura nguva 19 yakakwirira.
Kushamwaridzana Nevamwe Muvanhu Vose Vakaroorana
Dambudziko rehukama hwepedyo hwemhirizhonga pakati pevarume veLGBTQ nderwechokwadi sezvazviri mumunharaunda wakarurama, asi zvidzidzo zvishomanana zviripo zvinokurudzira nyaya yacho.
Zvidzidzo zvakange zvichiratidzwa zvinoratidzira sangano re LGBTQ rine:
- Uine ruzivo rwakanyanya kune zvinetso zvekunwa zvinodhaka kupfuura hutano hwepabonde
- Nhamba dzepamusoro dzehukama hwehukama hwehukama
- Yakaratidza zvimwe zvinhu zvisina kunaka zvinobatanidzwa nekutsvaga kurapwa
Vakaroorana nevarume vanoita zvepabonde pamwe chete nemamwe mapoka evanhu vane zvepabonde havawanzorevi kurapwa nokuti vanotya homophobia uye vari kunze, kunyanya avo vanogara munharaunda dzisina kukodzera.
Nharaunda ye LGBTQ inogonawo kuva nekunetseka kwakanaka pamusoro pekushanda kwepurogiramu yekiokie-cutter yevakaroorana vakarurama vanoshandiswa kuronga matambudziko anotarisana neLBBTQ vakaroorana.
Apo Chisimba Chinoitika
Zviitiko zvechisimba zvinowanzoitika munguva kana kuti mushure mekunge uchanwa. Zvisinei, varume vari mukurapa kumhirizhonga mudzimba newaini yakanyanya kusangana nematambudziko kazhinji vanowanzoita zvechisimba zvekudyidzana navo kune zuva ripi neripi, pasinei nekunwa, kudarika avo vanobatana vasina zvinetso zvekunwa.
Kune vakaroorana vakarurama umo varume vakaroorana vane nhoroondo chaiyo yekushungurudza mukomana, kunwa, kunyanya kunwa doro , kunomirira chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chekudzoka kwekurwa kwepanyama.
Kana iwe uchifunga iwe unogona kunge uine ukama hune ngozi, tora mhinduro yepamusoro yekutsvaga panjodzi .
> Sources:
Klostermann, et al. "Kushungurudzika uye Maitiro Akaita Zvechisimba: Kunwa Doro uye Muchirwe Nevamwe Muvanhu VechiGay uye Vevabonde." (2011)
> National Council on Alcoholism uye Drug Dependence. "Doro, Zvinodhaka uye Mhosva." (2015)
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