Vana vacheche vanotya, mufaro uye kushamisika, pakati pemamwe manzwiro
Kuziva uye kugona-maitiro ekuita maitiro akauya kuzotungamira chirwere chepfungwa , asi manzwiro anoita vana kubva pakuberekwa anogona kupa mamwe maitiro ekurapa. Kutsvakurudza kwakaratidza, zvisinei, kuti pane zvikonzero zvakanaka zvekupararira kwekuziva-maitiro ekuita kurapa. Kunyanya, nzira iyi yekurapa inoshanda kumatambudziko mazhinji. Kushungurudzika, kunyanya, kwakaratidzwa kupindura zvakanaka kune nzira dzinobatsira vanhu kuchinja zvavanotenda uye mafungiro.
Kune rimwe divi, rimwe dambudziko rinogona kuva nekutaurirana kwekuziva ndeye tsika yavo yekuisa pfungwa kune imwe nzvimbo yechipiri. Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Albert Ellis, somuenzaniso, akaona kushushikana kwakasimba semugumisiro wekukurukurirana pakati pezviitiko zviri munharaunda uye zvitendero zvatinazvo.
Mucheche Manzwiro Ashumira Somutungamiri
Asi zvakadini nevana? Tose takaona vana vanoita sevanonzwa kunzwa kwakasimba kwazvo. Iko mafungiro aya anokonzerwa nekutenda kwavo here? Kuita chidzidzo ndechiedza che kutsanangura vana. Isu tose tinonzwisisa kuti vana vanogona kunge vachida kunzwa. Zvakaoma zvikuru kufunga pamusoro pavo sekutenda. Kunobatsira dzidziso yakasiyana zvikuru kubva pamagariro ekufungidzira nokuti inoratidza kuti isu takaberekwa neine mapfumbamwe anonyanya kushushikana anonzi anokanganisa. Zvose manzwiro anobva kune izvi anoshanda.
Chinhu Chakanaka, Chisingabatsiri uye Chinosvibisa
Nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Silvan Tomkins akatenda kuti zvipfumbamwe izvi zvinokanganisa kuva innate uye inobva yese manzwiro.
Iko kunokanganisa kubva kune chakanaka kuenda kune zvematongerwo enyika kune zvisina kunaka. Zvinhu zvakanaka zvinosanganisira kufarira / kufara uye kufara / mufaro. Ikusapindira manzwiro inosanganisira kushamisika / kukurumidza, asi kusuwa kwakanyanya kunosanganisira zvinotevera:
- Kutya / kutya
- A nger / hasha
- Kutambudzika / kurwadziwa
- Kunyara / kunyadziswa
- Disgust
- Dissmell (repulsion)
Silvan Tomkins akatanga kuchinja maonero asati asvika pakufungidzira maitiro akadai. Icho chimwe chezvinyorwa zvedzidziso dzakasiyana-siyana zvinotsanangura kuti kune nhamba shomanana yezvinoitika zvisingatauriki. Zvakawanda zvebasa rake rokutanga zvinoratidzika kuva zvakaoma kuverenga, saka pfungwa dzake dzakange dzave dzakakurumbira kana dzichiratidzwa nevamwe vanotevera chikoro chekufunga.
Mukuru pakati pavo ndiDonald Nathanson, nheyo yeSilvan S. Tomkins Institute. Mabasa aNathanson pamusoro wezvinonyadzisa uye anokanganisa dzidziso yatanga kuchinja kwakanyarara pakati pepfungwa dzepfungwa. Manzwiro akave akajeka uye chiedza chitsva chinodururwa pamagadzirirwo ekurapa akadai sokufamba kweziso maziso nekudzorerazve (EMDR) .
Script Theory uye New Psychotherapy Trends
Tompkins 'inoshandisa pfungwa yacho inowirirana nedzidziso yake yechiratidzo (izvo kunyange Nathanson anoti haanzwisisi zvakakwana). Sezvatinokura, tinoronga ruzivo rwedu mune zvichemo, zvino mune zvinyorwa zvinyorwa zvinosanganisira manzwiro, zvakaitika kare uye mazano ekutevedzera.
Kuungana kweTomkins Institute ndeimwe yenzvimbo dzakanakisisa dzekudzidza pamusoro pekukanganisa nheyo uye script theory. Nathanson anobatsira chiitiko chacho, pamwechete nevamwe vari kushingaira mukutsvakurudza uye kubhizimisi basa padzidziso.
Iyo colloquium yakave nehurukuro dzakasiyana-siyana pakushandisa EMDR senzira yekusunungura vanhu kubva mune zvinyorwa zvinoparadza mumararamiro avo uye Nathanson akakurudzira vose vanachiremba varipo kuti vadzidze nzira iyi.
Inoshandisa pfungwa here mune chiitiko chinotevera mune zvepfungwa? Zvichida, asi haisati yasvika pachiremera chakakura icho chinofanira kutora chirwere chepfungwa. Iine mikana yakawanda, zvakadaro. Nguva inotevera paunopedza nguva nechecheche, zvibvunze kana ane manzwiro. Ipapo bvunza kuti sei.