Kudzokazve Hakusi Kuderedza Nguva!
Ndinoziva izvi hazvisi chimwe chinhu chichaita kuti ndinzwire zvakanyanya kukwidziridzwa, kunyadzisa kana kunyange kukwegura, asi ndine chido chekuvonazve chemedies. Ndine zvishoma zvandinoda zvinoratidza kuti ndinoda kutarisa zvakare. Kana ndichinetseka, ndinoziva kuti kurovedza muviri kana kufungisisa kunoderedza kushungurudzika kwangu munguva pfupi uye kukurudzira kusimba munguva refu, asi dzimwe nguva ndinowanzokwira mubhedha uye ndotarisa zvakare, vanobuda kubva my coon with more energy and patience.
Ichokwadi.
Kana iwe uri mumwe munhu anozviwana iwe uchiita izvi, kana iwe wakanyatsokanganisika nei ndichida kufara izvi, ndine mamwe anofadza nhau kwauri. Zvinowedzera kuti kutsvakurudza kunopa chikonzero chekuti nei vanhu vachikweverwa kune rudzi urwu rwekushungurudzika mupfungwa, uye rinonzwisisika. Sezviri pachena, izvi zvose pamusoro pokudzorera simba redu rekuchengetedza nechinguva chiduku-kushungurudzika, kunotyisa "nguva" yevanhu.
Zvidzidzo zviviri zvakabudiswa mupepanhau Social Psychological and Personality Science zvakaongorora hukama pakati pemitambo yeterevhizheni uye kugadzirwa kwebasa, uye zvigumisiro zvinoratidza tsanangudzo yekuti sei chiito ichi chinoshanda kwandiri. Mukudzidza kwokutanga, muongorori Jayne Derrick, PhD. inotsvaga mapoka maviri ezvidzidzo. Rimwe boka riri kupedza basa rakaoma, rakarongeka, uye boka rechipiri riri kupedzisa basa risina zvematongerwe enyika. Mapoka acho akazogoverwa kuva mavirizve, neboka rimwe rinotsanangura mafirimu avanofarira terevhizheni uye rimwe boka rinoronga zvinhu muimba (imwe "basa" risina basa).
Vaya vakanyora nezverudo rwavanoda (pane kunyora zvinhu muimba yavo) vakanyora kwenguva yakareba kudai vakanga vaita basa rakagadziriswa kupfuura dai vainge vaita basa risina kunyorwa. Izvo zvinoreva izvi, Derrick anoti, ndeyekuti vatori vechikamu ava vaitsvaga zvirongwa zvavo zveTV uye vaida kupedza nguva yakawanda vachifunga nezvavo.
Derrick anotaurawo kuti kunyora pamusoro pekudavira kwavo kweterevhizheni kuratidzira kudzorera simba ravo uye kuvabvumira kuti vaite zviri nani pamibvunzo yakaoma yavakabvunzwa kuti vapedze .
Muchidzidzo chechipiri, vatori vechikamu vaichengetedza gwaro rega rega ravanotaura pamusoro pebasa ravo rezuva nezuva rinoda kushanda, kushandiswa kwevhidhiyo uye simba ravo zuva rimwe nerimwe. Kana vaifanira kuita basa rinopedza simba, ivo vainyanya kutsvaga kudzoka zvakare kwemafirimu avo vaidiwa neterevhizheni, kuti vaonezve firimu yaidiwa kana kuti verengazve bhuku raidiwa. Kuita kudaro, zvino kudzorera simba ravo .
"Mune mamwe mazwi, paiva nekugadzirisa kunogona kudzorera kubva kune imwe nyika inofananidzira zvenhema," Derrick anotaura achishandisa pepanhau rekubudiswa.
Chimwe chinhu chikuru chinowanikwa apa ndechokuti vanhu vakaona kuti kutarisa zvakare kutarisa kwekuratidzira kwaidiwa kwakadzorera simba ravo, vachivabvumira kuti vaite zvakawanda pashure. Imwe pfungwa inokosha yekucherechedza ndeyokuti yakadzoka zvakare, kwete kungofarira kuona, izvo zvaiwanzoita mutsauko.
"Kuvandudza kwandakawana ndekwakaitika kuti ndidzorezve kutarisa mafirimu anonyanya kufarira terevhizheni (kana kutizve-kutarisa mafirimu aunoda kana kuverengazve mabhuku aunoda)," anodaro Derrick. "Kungotarisa chero chinhu chiri kuterevhizheni hachipi zvinobatsira.
Uye zvichida zvinoshamisa, kutarisa chikamu chitsva chemafirimu ekuterevhizheni kwekutanga hazvipi izvo zvinobatsira. "
Anotaura kuti kune chimwe chinhu pamusoro pe "kusarudzwa kwevanhu munharaunda" yekutarisa vanhu vanofarira, uye kune chimwe chinhu chinozorodza kuti utange kuziva izvo zvichaitika. Nenzira iyi, kudzokera zvakare kutarisa firimu yeterevhizheni inogona kupa zvinetso zvisinganyanyi kunetseka kupfuura zvechokwadi-hupenyu hwemagariro evanhu hunogona kusanganisira kukakavara kana zvimwe zvisingazivikanwi zvingaita simba remvura.
"Kunyange zvazvo kune zvibereko zvakanaka zvekukurukurirana kwevanhu semafungiro ekunzwa kwekusimbiswa," anodaro Derrick, "kushamwaridzana kwevanhu kunogonawo kubvisa pfungwa yekuramba, kusagadzikana uye kutyora, izvo zvinogona kuderedza simba."
Izvi zvinowedzera kune mhirizhonga inopfuurira pamusoro pekuti terevhizheni chii chinoderedza kushungurudzika, chinokonzera kushungurudzika, kana basa risingapindiri , uye rinotipa isu mamwe mazano ekuti terevhizheni inogona kushandiswa sei kudzvinyirira kudzvinyirira kwemaitiro akanaka nezvinangwa, pasina kuve yakakwana nguva drain. Inotsanangurawo kuti nei vazhinji vedu dzimwe nguva tinosarudza mafirimu ekare ekare kana terevhizheni tichidzoka kune zviitiko zvitsva kana blockbusters.
"Kubva pakutsvakurudza kwangu, ndinopikisa kuti kutarisa terevhizheni hazvisi zvakaipa zvose." Kunyange zvazvo kune hutsva hutsvakurudzo huratidza kuti huterevhizheni inogona kuwedzera hutsinye, uye kutarisa terevhizheni inogona kunge ichiita kuti kuwedzera kukura kwehutachiona, kutarisa terevhizheni yaunofarira inogona kupa zvakasiyana-siyana zvekubatsira, izvo zvingagadzirisa hutano hwakakwana, "anodaro.
Iye anewo zvimwe zvakawanikwa kubva pakutsvakurudza kwake. "Ndaona, semuenzaniso, iyo inofarira mitambo yemavhidhiyo inogona kuwedzera kuwedzera kwehuwandu hwehutano hwevanhu." Kunyanya, mushure mekufunga pamusoro pevhedhiyo yeterevhizheni, vanhu vanoda kuregerera vamwe, vanove vakagadzirira kubatsira mutorwa uye vari kuda kuti vape zvibayiro nokuda kwewavo vane rudo, "anodaro.
Saka dzimwe nguva apo tinonzwa takasununguka kubva pakuzvidya mwoyo zvakanyanya kana mararamiro anonyanya kubatikana, tinongoda kuzvidzora isu toga uye tinozvibvumira izvo zvinonakidza zvakadai seTV re-runs. Pane humwe hunobudirira hunooderedza kunetseka kunze uko here? Chokwadi. (Kuita muviri uye kufungisisa zvose zvinouya mupfungwa, sezvavanowedzera kugadzirisa uye kuwedzera hutano huzhinji.) Zvisinei, kana iwe ukazviona uchinetseka kubva pakuzvideredza kunetseka kunoda humwe hukuru hwekushanda kana kuedza, zvakanyatsonaka kuti uzviite mune zvinonakidza zvakadai sezvi , kunyanya kana inoshandiswa mumwero. Pasi pane mamwe maitiro akareruka anokonzera kushungurudzika anogona kudzorera simba kana iwe uchinzwa wakanyoroveswa, kubvisa kunetseka nenzira iri nyore, kana kungovhenekera chiso chako kana uchichida.
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Kunobva: Derrick, Jaye, Ph.D. (2012). Yakasimbiswa neTerevhizheni: Inowanikwa Fictional Worlds Kudzorera kuzvidzora. Social Psychological and Personality Science , 4; 3; p299-p307.