Animbova Bachelorette Contestant Jamie Blyth Anotaura Nezvekufunganya
Jamie Blyth anozivikanwa zvikuru nekuonekwa seanopikisana nenguva yekutanga yeA ABC chaiyo yehuterevhizheni inoratidza The Bachelorette. Jamie akazviita kuburikidza nemitambo yakasiyana-siyana yakasimuka asi akazotumirwa kumba naTrista Rehn, uyo akazopedzisira asarudza uye akazoroora, Ryan Sutter.
Asingazivi vamwe vaipikisana naBachelorette panguva iyoyo, Jamie ainge achitarisana nezvakawanda zvisiri zvemajitter zvakagadzikana nezvekuva paTV.
Jamie akatambura kutya kwake kokutanga muna 1994. Kubva pamakore ekuma19 kusvika ku24 akarwisana nekutya uye kushungurudzika kwevanhu kunomusiya kutya kuenda kuchikoro makirasi uye kuona shamwari.
Kunyange zvazvo akaedza muchidimbu mishonga uye kurapwa , Jamie akazogadzirisa pane imwe nzira yaisanganisira kushanda pane zvaaifunga kuti ndizvo zvinokonzera kushungurudzika kwake: kuzvikudza kwakaderera.
"Chirongwa Chake" chinosanganisira kuzviisa mukutenda. Akazvifashamo nemashoko akanaka . Akaverenga nhoroondo dzevanhu vanobudirira mumarudzi ose ehupenyu saGeorge Washington, Lance Armstrong, uye Hellen Keller. Mumazwi aJamie, "aida kudzidza zvakasiyana nezvinozvidya mwoyo uye agamuchira mafungiro anowedzera polar kune iye anoita kuti tisazvidya mwoyo."
Akapinda basa rakaoma uye rakaoma rekombiji yekutsvaga basa. "Kana iwe wakarasikirwa nhamba yako yemwedzi miviri mushure iwe wakadzingwa ... 99% yevanhu havana kuitapfuura mwedzi mitanhatu." Jamie akabva aenda kunotamba chikwata chebasa muEurope.
Kuonekwa paBachelorette yaiva imwe nzira yekuzvidzivirira pachake uye kuona zvaaigona kuita.
Kukurukurirana kwepakutanga umo Jamie akataura pamusoro pehutano hwake hwekuzvidya mwoyo waiva na Diane Sawyer. Akazoenderera mberi kuonekwa pana Oprah Winfrey nemamwe maitiro enyika.
Sezvo kuonekwa paC Bachelorette Jamie kwave iri mutori wenhau, muenzaniso, mukati-city baseball coach, mutauriri wevanhu vose uye munyori.
Bhuku raKe "Kutya Hakusi Nguva Yangu Yechokwadi" ndeyezvinyorwa zvekuti akakunda sei kutya uye kushungurudzika kwevanhu munzanga.
Mukutaura naJamie, akasimbisa kuti chinonyanya kukurudzira ari kubatsira vamwe kuvaka kuvimba kwavo nekuzviremekedza. Mazano ake ekuvaka kuzviremekedza ndeyekugadzirisa zvinangwa zvenguva pfupi uye kusimudza bharu mushure mekukunda kwechidiki.
Mubvunzo: Ungatsanangura sei upenyu mushure mekutanga kwekutya kwekutya?
A: Upenyu hwangu hwakashandurwa nokusingaperi mushure mekutya kwangu kwekutanga kunetseka. Yakanga iri nguva dzose ichirindira, ichimirira kuzorova zvakare. Ndakagara mukutya kukuru uye kutya nguva dzose kwezvinotevera panic attack, izvo zvakangoitika kune vanhu. Ndaigara pamucheto wekutambudzika kwekutya nguva dzose.
Ndakadzivirira vanhu pamatambudziko ose, izvo zvakagadzirisa kusurukirwa kukuru uye zvakangoita kuti mamiriro acho awedzere. Handikwanise kutsvaga rubatsiro sezvo ndaitya kuona mumwe munhu wandinoziva uye ndine kutya kwekutya pamberi pavo.
Yakanga iri inotyisa uye mamiriro angu akawedzera. Nguva pfupi, nyika chete yandaiziva yaiva yekutya, kurwadziwa, kuora mwoyo, uye kusurukirwa.
Mubvunzo: Chii chakaita sekuve mukoroji uye kubata nehutano hwekuzvidya mwoyo?
A: Ndakazviita kuburikidza nekoroji kuburikidza nekugadzirisa chiitiko chekugara mukati menyaradzo yangu yekunyaradza. Ndakaparadzana kubva munzvimbo dzakawanda dzevanhu uye makirasi ayo aireva hurukuro.
Ini chaizvoizvo ndainzwa ndakasununguka pamagumo ekoroji asi ndakanga ndisiri kurarama hupenyu.
Panguva yekupedza kudzidza, ndinoyeuka munhu wose aifara akafara uye akafara kuti apinde munyika chaiye uye atora hupenyu. Ndakanzwa zvakasiyana. Ndaiziva kuti ndoda kuzove pachena. Ndingazopinda sei munyika chaiye ndisingazokwanisi kutaura nevanhu? Ndakanga ndavanza mamiriro angu akanaka zvakanaka, asi nguva yangu yakanga yakasimuka.
Mubvunzo: Wakakunda sei kutyisa kwako uye kushungurudzika kwevanhu?
A: Pandakanga ndava nemakore makumi maviri nemasere, ramangwana raiita serisingakundiki, ndaive nesarudzo ... kurwisana kana kusiya. Uye kana ndikati kurega, ndinoreva kuzviuraya. Ndizvo zvakaderera ndaive. Ndakasarudza kurwisana.
Ndakaona kuti zviratidzo zvangu zvepanyama zvakakonzera kutya. Somuenzaniso, pandainge ndava kuda kupa mharidzo uye ndakanzwa kuti kuwedzera kwekutya mukati mangu uye chiso changu chakanga chakachena uye mweya wangu wakanga wakasimba uye mwoyo wangu wakarohwa ... Ndaiziva kuti ndaizove nekutya kusangana.
Ndaifanira kuzvipira kune kutya kusvikira izvi zviratidzo zvepanyama zvisakanganisika uye pfungwa dzangu dzakanga dzisingabatanisi mwoyo wepambiso nekutya kwekutya. Ndakaita izvozvi kuburikidza nokuzvininira nguva dzose muchinhu chaicho chandaitya ... vanhu.
Ndakaona kuti ndakanga ndasikwa kunetseka nemafungiro angu, zviito, uye zvisarudzo. Dai ndakanga ndakazvigadzira uye ndikachidzidza, nei ndisingakwanisi kuzvidzidza uye kuzvirondedzera? Icho chaiva gumbo randakatora uye rakabhadhara. Simba rangu guru ikozvino riri kutenderera vanhu. Pain mufundisi mukuru pane dzimwe nguva.
Mubvunzo: Sei wakasarudza kurwisa dambudziko iwe pachako?
A: Handina kuenda kuchiremba zvikuru nokuti zvingava zvakaoma kuti ndiende kuburikidza nekurapwa kwekutaura apo kutya kwangu kukuru kwaiva kutaura nevanhu.
Mubvunzo: Chii chakaitika kuburikidza nechiitiko ichi chinokudzidzisa? Paiva pane zvipo zvekuita nekuzvidya mwoyo here?
A: Kuzvidya mwoyo kwaiva chinhu chakanakisisa chakamboitika kwandiri. Zvose zvandinowana kubudirira ndezvikonzero zvakakwana zvekuzvidya mwoyo uye ndinonzwa ndakakomborerwa nekuda kwekuzviona.
Kufunganya kwakanga kuri nzvimbo yangu, mudzidzisi wangu, uye mubatsiri wangu. Yakandimanikidza kuti ndigadzirise nyaya dzangu dzekuzviremekedza . Yakandimanikidzira kuti ndive anonyanya kuomesa ini, kuti ndiparadze kubva munzvimbo yangu yekunyaradza uye ndikure iwe pachako kunze kwezviroto zvangu zvakashata.
Dai ndangotora mishonga, ndingadai ndakanga ndakanaka, asi ini ndingadai ndisiri mukuru wevatengesi kwemakore mana kana kuva mutori wenhau weTV uye muenzi. Ndingadai ndisina kunyora bhuku ndokuva mukurukuri wevanhu kana kugara pachigaro pedyo neOprah pamberi pevanhu vane mamiriyoni makumi maviri.
Mubvunzo: Vamwe vanhu vangave vakavhiringidzika pamusoro pekuti mumwe munhu aive kechikoro akadii uye ane shamwari dzakawanda dzinokura zvinogona kutambura nehukama hwevanhu. Vakanga vari vanhu vakakurira mushamiswa nekuongorora kwenyu here?
A: Vanhu vakakurira neni vakakatyamadzwa. Vanhu vane kushungurudzika kwevanhu munzanga, panic disorder, uye kuora mwoyo kunowedzera zvakanaka. Ndakanga ndakakurumbira zvikuru uye sezvawakataura kuti ndaive klassn clown.
Ndakazvivanza kubva kune shamwari dzangu panguva yekutambudzika uye hongu ivo vakavhunduka. Vaivewo vanobatsira pakundibatsira kuburikidza naro ... kunyanya Joe Cheff, Brian Loftus, Bob Guiney, Brian Musso naamai vangu.
Mubvunzo: Ndeapi mazano kune vanhu vane dambudziko?
A: Ziva kuti chokwadi chako chaicho hachirevi ramangwana rako. Zvinhu zvinogona kuchinja nokukurumidza kuti zviri nani.
Chengeta wako-kutaura. Usazvirova iwe pachako nekuda kwekukanganisa. Sarudza kuva akanaka kunyange kana upenyu huri kukanda sandwich sh * t kwauri uye unonzwa uchitambudzika.
Idya zvokudya zvakanaka, uye usapinda caffeine uye doro.
Nyaradzwa pamusoro pekuti iwe hausi woga. Kune mamiriyoni evanhu vanonzwa zvakafanana nenzira imwe chete yamunoita. Gadzira boka rekutsigira. Enda paIndaneti uye uyanane nevanhu vanotambura.
Kurwisana nemarwadzo panzvimbo pokuvanda uye kudzivisa. Hapana mishonga yemashiripiti ... zvinotora nguva, kushanda zvakaoma, kutsungirira, nekutsunga.
Mubvunzo: Kana iwe ukwanisa kutaurira wako wemakore 19-iwe-chii?
A: Ndinoziva kuti iwe uri kutya sei. Ndinoziva iwe unotya uye iwe haugoni kuona kunze kwekurwadziwa uku uye iwe haugoni kufungidzira kutaura nemusikana asingabviri Oprah pamberi pemamirioni.
Zvawakapfuura hazvienzani nehupenyu hwako. Kuvhunduka uye hukama hwevanhu hunogona kuva zvinhu zvakanakisisa zvakamboitika kwauri. Makore mashanu kubvira ikozvino vachatungamira kune zvinhu zvinopfuura zviroto zvenyu zvakashata uye kutaura nevanhu vachava simba renyu guru.
Ndingati ... iwe unogona kuzviita! Kurwisa! Iwe une ushingi hwausingazivi kunyange iwe. Ndinoziva kurwadziwa kwauri mauri ikozvino, asi ndiri kukuudza, hazvifaniri kuva saizvozvo nenzira nokusingaperi. Shandisa marwadzo ako kuzvikwidziridza iwe nevamwe.
Mubvunzo: Chii chaita kuti iwe usarudze kuudza nyika nezvezvauri kutarisana nazvo?
A: Ndinozviziva ndoga kuti upenyu hunotyisa hupi nehuwandu hwevanhu hunotyisa uye kutyisa. Ndakanga ndine mukana wekuita izvi uye ndinonzwa pfungwa yekuzvipira uye tsitsi kune vanhu vari kuhuwana.
Kuzvidya mwoyo kunogona kukurova chero munhu chero nguva. Kubvira pakuratidza, vazhinji vevanhu vanobudirira chaizvo vanobata nekushungurudzika kwekukurumidza kwekutya uye kutya kunouya kwandiri kuti ndiwane mhinduro kana kuti ndakavabatsira nemashoko angu.
Ndinoda kutaurira kuti mwana wechikoro chesekondari, munhu webhizimisi kana amai vane kushungurudza mwana wavo anotambura kuti havasi ivo voga. Kune mamiriyoni evanhu vanonzwa nenzira imwe chete; kurwadziwa kunotibatanidza uye kunogona kushanduka kuva yakanaka.
Mubvunzo: Chii chaunofarira kugutsikana?
A: "Kana pasina kukakavara, hapana kufambira mberi." ... Frederick Douglas. Kana kuti "Kana iwe uchifunga kuti iwe unogona kana iwe haugone, iwe wakarurama" ... Ndinotenda Henry Ford akati izvozvo.
Mubvunzo: Unogara uchinge uchinetseka here?
A: Ndichine mazuva angu murima uye nguva dzose ndichazviita. Handina kumbobvira ndava nekutya kwekutya kwekupera mumakore mapfumbamwe, asi ndinoziva zvinogona kuti ini ndive nemumwe kana vazhinji pane izvozvi.
Iniwo ndinoziva kuti inogona kukundwa kana ndikasarudza kugadzirira nekurwa. Kukunda kungasava izwi rakarurama ... rakagadzirirwa. Kana ndikava nekutya zvakare, izvo hazvirevi kuti hupenyu hwangu hwakapera kana kuti hushoma. Ndinotarisira kuti ndine chivimbo chekudzoka munhete.
Mubvunzo: Wave uchiitei kubva pakuva pa Bachelorette nekunyora bhuku rako?
A: Kubvira kuratidzwa, ndave ndichirarama hupenyu hwakanaka. Ini ndinotamba toni yegorofu. Ndakadzidzisa vatambi uye ndave VP yekutengesa kwekambani muChicago. Ndakaita hurukuro yeTV kuNBC uye ndakabvunzurudza vanhu vanozivikanwa seLebron James, John Cusack, Kim Kardashian, Hugh Laurie, Chelsea Handler nezvimwe zvakawanda.
Kuvandudzwa (Gumiguru 24, 2015): Jamie akaenderera mberi nebasa rake sechinhu chinotaridzirwa paanenge achigadzirisa kubudirira kwehukama hwake hwemagariro evanhu. Iye zvechokwadi akafuridzirwa!