Kuroora kazhinji kunoreva kuti iwe unofambidzana naye muupenyu. Mumwe munhu kugoverana nepamusoro pehupenyu pamwe chete, kusanganisira mubereki, kutarisira imba uye kupa mumwe nemumwe kutsigira kwepfungwa.
Zvisinei, kana mumwe wako ane ADHD, kubatana kunogona kukanganisa sezvo iwe uchiwana iwe uri kuchengeta zvaunofambidzana newe uye iwe pachako.
Sezvo asiri mudzimai weDHD, iwe unganzwa kuti hauna mukomana, asi pane mumwe munhu kuti aratidze, agadzirise uye atungamirire semwana.
Zviri nyore kuona kuti nei vasina-ADHD vakaroorana vanotanga kunzwa vari voga, vari kure, vakaremerwa, vakatsamwa, vakatsamwa, vachitsoropodza uye vanomupomera apo ADHD murume kana mudzimai anokwanisa kunzwa achishungurudzwa, akarambwa uye akasimbiswa. Kana kushungurudzika uye kutsamwa kunowedzera kuoma kuzvidzora, imba inogona kutanga kuzarura.
Zviratidzo zvevakuru zveDHD
Kakawanda kana shamwari haazive kuti ADHD ndiye chikonzero chezvinetso izvi. Dr. David W. Goodman, MD, purofesa mubatsiri wePsychiatry uye Behavioral Sciences paJohn Hopkins University School of Medicine uye Mutungamiri weChirungu Chekuita Kunetseka kweDambudziko reMadrid, anoti "Vakawanda vakawanda havafungi nenzira isina kururama kana kuti havana kuudzwa kuti munhu haikwanisi kuva neDHD semunhu mukuru . Izvi hazvisi chokwadi, "
Dr. Goodman uyo anotsanangurawo kuti ADHD inonyanya kufanana nezvakawanda .
Kune vamwe vanhu vakuru, kuongororwa kunoitwa shure kwevana vavo pachavo vanoongororwa uye vanoongororwa vane ADHD. Sezvo vabereki vachidzidza zvakawanda nezvakawanda nezveHADH, vanogona kutanga kutora maitiro eDHD mukati mavo.
Zviratidzo zvevakuru zveDHD zvakafanana nezviratidzo zvehucheche - kusatarisira, kusavhiringidzika, kutora kwenguva yakareba kuti zvinhu zviitike, zvinetso nekutarisira nguva, kuparadzaniswa, kukanganwa, nekudzivisa.
Havana kukura muhukuru, asi vanoramba vari vakuru. Zviratidzo zvakare zvinowedzera kukura semamiriro ehupenyu hwemunhu zvinowedzera kusimbiswa uye sezvinodiwa muupenyu huwedzere. Zvinogona kuva zororo rakakura pakupedzisira kunzwisisa uye kuisa zita kumamiriro ekukonzera matambudziko.
Matambudziko Okurapa
"Kana mudiwa ADHD ari kugamuchira kuongororwa uye kurapwa, basa rinowanzovandudza zvakajeka," anodaro Dr. Goodman. Mishonga haisi yekutambudza chete; iyo inowanzowanzoona maziso evanhu. Havasi vose vakuru vane ADHD vanozarurirwa kurapwa, izvo zvinogona kuvhiringidzika kune avo vakaroorana vanoona kurapwa senzira yeukama hwavo hunovandudza.
"Dambudziko guru kune mumwe asiri mudzimai weDHD," anodaro Dr. Goodman "apo shamwari yavo isati yambowana kugadziriswa kana kurapwa, inosarura pamapfungwa, kana kuti haina kutarisana nechirwere chepfungwa uye iri kutyisa kana kutya kuve yakanyorwa, kana kuti vachitya kudiwa kutora mishonga. "
Kana ava vari vakuru nevana vari kugamuchira kurapwa kweHDH, pane dzimwe nguva kuvandudzwa kunoshamisa kunoonekwa mumwana wavo kunobatsira pamaonero eAdHD omunhu. Vanhu vazhinji vanoda kuve nani nekuvandudza kushanda kwavo. Apo pavanoona mwana wavo ari kushanda zvakanyanya zvakanyanya nekurapa, munhu mukuru anotanga kushamisika kana vangakwanisa kuita zviri nani, zvakare.
Apo Dr. Goodman anosangana nevarwere vasingadi, anotora "regai tagara pasi titaure" kusvika. Kana mishonga inoratidzwa, anokurudzira varwere kuti vaedze iyo mwedzi kana maviri. Pakupera kwemazuva iwayo, kana munhu wacho asiri kuona humwe hunovandudzwa kana asingadi kuti ari kushanda sei, munhu wacho angasarudza kungorega mushonga.
Iyi nzira inopa murwere kunzwa kwakanaka kwekutarisira kurapwa. Kune vamwe vanhu, pane kuzvidya mwoyo kana kushungurudzika nekurasikirwa nekugadzirisa. Kuti varambe vakachengetedza, vanogona kurwisa kurapwa. "Vanhu vanoda kunzwa vachidzora kurapwa kwavo kwepfungwa, kunyanya panyaya yekuti inogadzirisa sei kushanda kwavo kwepfungwa," anotsanangura kudaro Dr. Goodman uyo anowanzopa dzidzo uye ruzivo rwakarurama pamusoro pevakuru ADHD uye anoshanda zvakaoma kuita mumugwagwa uye kuita vakanganisa varwere.
Mishonga ishamwari pamwe chete nachiremba, asi kuraira kwakanyanya kunoitwa nemurwere. "Vanhu vazhinji vanonzwisisa kuti kana vauya kurapwa ivo vari kushanda 'kudarika'," anodaro Dr. Goodman. Kazhinji, vanhu vanoda kuve nani. Kana vachikwanisa kuve nekuvandudza hupenyu hwehupenyu hunobva mukurapa, vanhu vazhinji vanoita mari yekuenderera mberi. "Vanhu vashomanana vakasarudza kushanda pamwero wakaderera kana vaona zvikomborero."
Mazano kune Mudiwa
Dr. Goodman anoti zvinobatsira zvikuru kune munhu asiri ADHD kuti awedzere kunzwisisa kwehutano hweHDH hunogona kuva nehutano hwezuva nezuva.
"Munhu asiri mudzimai weHADH angave achifunga kuti ADHD mudiwa wavo ari kunyanya kushungurudza pavanonoka, vachidzivisa, kana kukanganwa," anodaro Dr. Goodman. "Izvozvo zvingaita seAADHD musikana haafaniri kushanduka kuchinja kana kuedza kushungurudza, apo chaizvoizvo ADHD munhu anenge asina simba uye asingakwanisi kuita pachidimbu chinodiwa."
Kazhinji kazhinji zvinetso zvinotambudza zveAADH partner mumwe wekusakundikana uye kuora mwoyo kwete pane chinokurudzira. Nekunzwisisa uku uye kunzwisisa uyo asiri mudzimai weHADH anowanzoshungurudzika.
Kunobva:
Dr. David W. Goodman, MD. Personal correspondence / interview. 12 Feb. 08 uye 15 Feb. 08.