Onai kuti borderline person disorder inogona kuitei kuchikoro chekondari
Kurarama ne- borderline person disorder (BPD) kunobata munharaunda yese yehupenyu hwako, kunyanya kune vanhu vanobatanidzwa. Isuwo tinoziva kuti kuva neBPD kunogona kukanganisa kubudirira kwekoroji . Ngatitarisei pamuenzaniso wemunhu unoenda kuchikoroji neBPD, uye nyaya dzakasiyana dzinogona kubuda.
Muenzaniso weHupenyu neBorderline Personality Disorder (BPD) muKoreji
Nhau inogona kunge yakakosha zviuru zvemashoko kana zvasvika pakutsanangura kuti kuva ne-boundline personality disorder (BPD) kunogona kukanganisa ruzivo rwekolji kana yunivhesiti.
Kuti urondedze zviri nani zvose zvakasangana uye zvinoita kuti munhu ane BPD atarisana naye, tichashandisa mushumo wenyaya yemukadzi ane zita rakashandurwa kuna Maria kuti adzivirire pfuma yake.
Sezvaunoverenga kuburikidza nemuenzaniso uyu, funga nezvehupenyu hwako. Wakambosangana nemamiriro ezvinhu akafanana neaya akasangana naMarita here? Wakave nemafungiro akafanana here? Zvadaro verenga pamusoro kuti udzidze nezvekuti dzimwe nyaya dzinowanzosangana nevanhu vane BPD dzinogona kuita sei.
Nhoroondo pamusoro paMarita uye Her Borderline Personality Disorder
Ngatitangei pakutanga. Takatora gore rapera kubva, Marita ari kuronga kudzokera kuchikoroji mukudengenyeka. Kuputsa kwake kwakauya somugumisiro wekusava nekutora chikoro mumakore ekutanga. Marita akangoita seanorega pakati pegore rake rekupedzisira; akarega kuenda kukirasi, akangotendeukira kune imwe yezvaakapiwa uye akatanga kutengesa. Atyisidzirwa neongororo yekudzidza, akasarudza kugara kunze kwegore uye kuungana.
Iyi yakanga isiri yekutanga kuti Marita aine matambudziko mukoroji. Ari kuchikoro chesekondari, aimbova mudzidzi anokwanisa uye anonyanya kufunga. Apo paakatanga korojiji, ramangwana rake rakaratidzika rakarongeka uye rakajeka. Nguva dzose pane chimwe chinokonzera, Marita pakutanga akaronga kutanga uye kumhanya nheyo isingabatsiri yevasikana vechidiki. Apo akangotanga chikoro, zvisinei, zvirongwa zvake zvakatanga kutora zvishoma.
Unhu hwemhirizhonga hunoratidzwa nekushanduka
Apo Marita akamutora kubva pakoroji, akanga atochinja maitiro ake matatu katatu mumakore maviri uye akanga achifunga nezvekuchinja zvakare. Akange atanga kuenda kumazariro kusvikira mangwanani okutanga emangwanani, kazhinji achinwa muimba yake ye dorm vasati vabuda (zvichida maitiro ekurapa .) Chakanga chisingawanzoiti kuti amuke asingazivi kwaaiva kana kuti ndiani akanga ane.
Kuburikidza nezvose izvi, iye akakwanisa kutora chikamu mumakirasi zvakakwana kuti agare musoro wake pamusoro pemvura. Asi mu semester yake yokupedzisira, akangorega kuenda kana kuita zvakawanda zvechinhu chipi nechipi.
Kupera uye Migumisiro yeBPD Symptoms
Semester yekupedzisira yaMarta yakanga yatanga nehuwandu hwechido chakakunda semester yake yokutanga mukoroji. Akazopedzisira akanyoresa kukirasi yakadzidziswa nepurofesa anozivikanwa yunivhesiti. Aizodururira zvose zvaaiedza kuita muzvikamu zvekirasi uye kunyange akamira kubuda zvakanyanya. Akafunga kuti akanga ari kunyatsobatana nevamwe vaaidzidza navo zvakare.
Marita akaparara apo mapepa ake asina kusarudzwa seasingaoneki. Purofesa haana kuita seanomuona semudzidzi mukuru. Kuna Marita, zvaiita sokuti purofesa haana kumuda zvachose.
(Funga nezvaMarita akaita pano.Wakave wakamboita chimwe chinhu chakafanana mune imwe nzvimbo muupenyu hwako here?)
Apo Marita akataura izvi kune avo vaaidzidza navo, vaizomutsigira kuti purofesa wacho aibata vose vadzidzi zvakafanana. Kushaikwa kwavo kwekugutsikana kwakanga kwakanyanyisa kunetseka uye kwakanzwa sechinhu chinoramba kurashwa. Marita akanzwa ari oga uye akatsamwa paaifunga nezvekirasi.
( Kushaya kuvimbiswa muhutano kunoonekwa seimwe yezvinhu zvinokonzerwa ne borderline person disorder, uye kunyange pfungwa dzinotaura kana kuti girasi munyaya ino dzichikuvhiringidza, dzinogona kukuyeuchidza pfungwa dzakawanda dzakaodza pfungwa kufungidzira.)
Marita akamira kuenda kukirasi iyi. Zvichida akafunga kuti kushayikwa kwezvipo zvake zvinokosha zvaizoshaikwa. Kana, zvichida akanga akatsamwa uye akanga asingadi kuva pane zvaisingadi, kana kuti aida kuti munhu wese azive kurwadziwa kwake. Pasina nguva akarega kuenda kumamwe mapoka pamwe chete.
(Kumunhu wokunze, izvi zvingaita sezviri pachena kuzvidzora, asi kune mumwe munhu anogara ne-borderline person disorder, kutuka kwakadzama.)
Dzose BPD Dhiyabhorosi
Mumuenzaniso uyu, Marita anoratidza zvinotevera kumiganhu yehutano hwezvirwere zvirwere:
- Ukama Hwakasimba / Husingagadzikane Nehukama Hwakanaka : Marita manzwiro okutanga pamusoro pepurofesa wake uye vaanodzidza navo akaoma uye anofungidzirwa . Anonzwa kuti ari kunyanya kushamwaridzana navo vaanodzidza naye uye akanyatsojekesa purofesa wake. Manzwiro aya nokukurumidza uye kamwe-kamwe anochinja, achichinja zvachose Marita kunzwisisa kwezvaakaona. Anotanga kuona avo vaanodzidza navo sevasingaiti uye purofesa wake seanomutora nokuti haasi kumuziva.
- Kusvetuka : Kana maonero aMarita achichinja kune imwe yenhamo, inoshanduka kubva kune zvakanaka kusvika kune yakaipa. Haakwanisi kuziva kuti akambonzwa zvakasiyana.
- Kutsigira Kurasikirwa : Marita akawedzera kukurudzirwa kwekurambwa pfungwa dzakagadzirisa iyo purofesa wake uye vaaidzidza navo vasina kumuda. Ichokwadi chekunzwa kwavo hazvizivikanwe uye hazvifaniri kunge zvakanyanya kutakura mararamiro aMarita kwavari.
Kufukidzira Kuzvibata Makuvadza: Marita aidha doro zvakanyanya uye akanga ane ufeve. Aizomuka nevasingazivi uye munzvimbo dzisina kujairika. Kushandisa kwaro doro kwakaguma iye asingakwanisi kuita zvisarudzo zvakachengeteka pamusoro peavo vaipedza nguva yake.
Kuziva Kuvhiringidza: Manzwiro aMarita kuti aive ani uye zvaaida kuita ndedzei. Apo akangopinda koreji, akarasikirwa nepfungwa yake yega uye akawana kuisa pfungwa pane zvakajeka chinangwa chakanaka chisingaiti.
Kutarisana neBorderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
Vanhu vazhinji vane BPD vanozviona ivo, zvichida pane imwe nguva, mumuenzaniso unotsanangurwa pamusoro apa. Nzira yekuverenga kuburikidza nemuenzaniso uyu inogona kuita kuti unzwe sokuti unoda kuenda kundorova Marita, sezvaunonzwisisa kurwadziwa mumoyo make kwakatungamirira kusarudzo dzake.
Chinokosha kunzwisisa ndeyekuti nzira iyo kubatana kunoitika kunogona kuchinjwa. Uye kuchinja hakufaniri kubva kune avo vane mhosva vachichinja nzira dzavo, asi pane iwe kushandura maitiro aunoshandura zviitiko, uye mukuita kudaro, shandura nzira yaunopindura nayo pane zvakaitika.
Kutarisa mienzaniso muhupenyu hwako kunogona kubatsira apo ivo vakaputsika sezvinotaurwa nenyaya yaMaria. Kana uri kurarama neBPD, tsvaga muongorori akanaka anokwanisa kukubatsira kushanda kuburikidza nenyaya dzakakonzerwa neBPD.
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