Vanhu vane BPD Kazhinji Vanorwisana Nezvokuda Kuita
Kuva muukama nemumwe munhu ane borderline person disorder (BPD) inogona kuva chinhu chinotyisa uye chinogumbura. Chero hukama hunogona kuve nehupamusoro uye hwakaderera, asi nyaya dzine chokuita neBPD dzinowedzera matambudziko ehukama hwehukama.
Zvisinei, kuva nemunhu ane BPD hazvirevi kuti hukama hwako hwakagadzirirwa kukanganisa. Vanhu vazhinji vane hukama hwakasimba nevanhu vane BPD, asi vamwe vanhu vane ushamwari hwakaipa pakati peBPD uye kusatendeseka.
Vanhu Vane BPD Zvichida Kubiridzira Here?
Parizvino hapana tsvakurudzo inoratidza kuwirirana pakati peBPD uye huwandu hwekubiridzira. Nhamba yekusatendeseka kune avo vane BPD inenge yakafanana nevamwe vanhu.
Zvisinei, zvidzidzo muhuwandu hwekubiridzira zvinoratidza kuti kusvika ku70% yevarume nevakadzi vakaroorana vakanyengera kune avo varo, saka zvichida vamwe vanhu vane BPD vachanyengedza zvakare. Nemhaka yehutano hwavo uye zviratidzo, hukama hwehukama uye kurwadziwa manzwiro anokonzerwa nekusatendeka kunogona kuipa.
Zvimwe zviviri zvezvinhu zvakakosha zvehupenyu hwemiganhu ndeye matambudziko muhukama nehutano nemafungiro ekufungidzira ; zviratidzo izvi zvinogona kuita kubiridzira zvakanyanya kuitika mumatambudziko nemigumisiro yakaipa.
Vanhu vane BPD vanowanzova nechishuwo chakasimba chekunzwa vadiwa uye vanogamuchirwa, pamwe chete nezvakawanda zvepamusoro uye zvakaderera muhukama hwavo. Uye, pavanenge vachinzwa vakasiyiwa kana vakarambwa, vanogona kuita zvisingatauriki kana maitiro.
Izvi zvinoreva kuti vangaita zvinhu vasina kufunga nezvekuguma kwezviito zvavo, kungo "kunzwa zviri nani" munguva pfupi. Zvechokwadi, kusavimbika kunogona kuwira munharaunda iyi.
Ko Vanhu Vane BPD Vachifunga Kuti Vabatsiri Vako Kubiridzira Here?
Kunyange zvazvo avo vane BPD vane mukana wakafanana wekubiridzira sevamwe, vane unhu hwakanyanya hwekufungidzira avo vavakaroorana navo vachibiridzira.
Chikamu chezviratidzo zveBPD ndechokufunga zvakanyanya kune vamwe. Nokuda kwekuzviremekedza, vanoomerwa nokutenda kuti mumwe munhu anogona kuvada uye kuramba akavimbika kwavari. Sezvo vakadaro, ivo vanowanzofunga kuti shamwari yavo ichavakuvadza neimwe nzira.
Nemhaka yekutya kuregererwa, avo vane BPD vanogona kunyanyisa uye kusavimbika. Vanogona kuchinja, vachifunga kuti vashandi vavo vari kuenda kumashure kwavo.
Nekudaro, izvi zvinokanganisa avo vanodiwa uye ukama hwavo. Kana shamwari yako neBPD inokupomera zvisina kunaka chekubiridzira, iwe unogona kunge wakatsamwa, unofunga uye unogona kufunga kunyange nezvekupedzisa ukama. Nenzira iyi, BPD inogona kukuvadza hukama hwehukama sezvo mufambiro chaiwo unokurudzira ukama kusvika pakuguma.
Kunyange zvazvo kuva neBPD hakuwedzeri ngozi yekusatendeseka, BPD inogona kuva dambudziko guru kune hukama hwevanhu vose vanobatanidzwa. Kana iwe kana mudiwa wako ari kutambura nezviratidzo zveBPD, taura nemupi wehutano wehutano kana mushonga . Kunyange zvazvo ani naani ane BPD anogona kubatsirwa nekurapwa, kuenda kuchipatara kuwedzera sezvinoita murume nemudzimai anogona kukubatsira kuti ushande kuburikidza nehukama hwehukama uye kunzwisisa apo mumwe wako ane BPD ari kubva. Kupedza masangano ako, iwe mose muchadzidza zvakakosha kukurukurirana nekugadzirisa unyanzvi hunogona kukubatsira kuburikidza nenguva dzinonetsa uye kusimbisa kusimbisa ukama hwako.
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