Zvaunotarisira Kubva Kumunhu Waunoda Ane Borderline Munhu Unetseka
Borderline person disorder (BPD) chirwere chakakomba chepfungwa chinokanganisa varume nevakadzi. Pamwe nekunzwa manzwiro uye manzwiro, vanhu vane BPD vanogonawo kutsamwa kukuru, inozivikanwa sekumucheto kutsamwa. Kana uine nhengo yemhuri kana mudiwa ane BPD, zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti kurwisana kunoenderana sei neBPD uye kuti inogona kushandiswa sei.
Kuwedzera kwechisimba kune vanhu vane BPD
Pane hutsva hunoratidza kuti varume nemadzimai vakaita zviito zvechisimba vane huwandu hwehuwandu hwemiganhu yehutano hwehutano huenzaniswa nehuwandu hwevanhu. Zvisinei, izvi hazvirevi hazvo kuti kuongororwa kunobatanidza nehuwandu hwekuita zvechisimba. Kuita zvinhu zvisina kufanira , izvo zvinosanganisira kurwisana, ndeimwe yenzira yekuongororwa yeBPD , kunyange zvazvo mumwe munhu anogona kugadzirisa zvirongwa zvechirwere pasina kuratidza chiratidzo ichi.
Chidzidzo chikuru cha2016 muUnited States chakawana kuti BPD chete haina kuratidza chimiro chechisimba, asi yakaratidza kuti avo vane BPD vanowanzove "nemafungiro," maitiro akabatanidzwa akafanana nekuzvidya mwoyo, kusagadzikana kwehutano hwehutano, uye kushandiswa kwezvinodhaka izvo zvinoita kusimudzira ngozi yechisimba. Kutsvakurudza kwakarongeka kwezvidzidzo gore iroro kwakatsigira kuwanikwa kumwe chete, nekushaikwa kweuchapupu hwekuti BPD chete inowedzera hutano hwechisimba.
Kune zvikonzero zvakasiyana siyana nei vanhu vane BPD vachiwanzoita zvechisimba muhukama hwavo. Kutanga, vanhu vane BPD vanowanzotambudzwa zvechisimba ivo, sekunge nekushungurudzwa kwevana . Kunyange zvazvo isiri chokwadi kune vanhu vose, vanhu vazhinji vane BPD vangave vakadzidza kushandisa utsinye kuti vatarisane nemanzwiro akasimba nokuti vanhu vakuru vanofananidzira mafambiro avo kwavari pavakanga vachiri vaduku.
Mukuwedzera, vanhu vane BPD vanowanzova nepfungwa isina kugadzikana yega pachavo uye kuoma kuvimba nevamwe muhukama hwevanhu. Vanogona kuva nemanzwiro akasimba kana vachifunga kuti vari kurambidzwa kana kusiyiwa; izvi zvinozivikanwa sekuramba kukanganisa kana kusiya kusimba. Aya manzwiro akaoma ekuramba anokwanisa dzimwe nguva anotungamirira kuzviito zvechisimba.
Pakupedzisira, vanhu vane BPD vanowanzova nematambudziko nemafungiro evamwe. Apo vari kutarisana nemanzwiro akasimba ayo anowanzoita zvechirwere, vanogona kuita zvinhu vasina kufunga pamusoro pemigumisiro. Kana vakaita zvechisimba, kazhinji hazvigadzirwe. Icho chiito chisingafungi chakaitwa mukupisa kwechinguvana.
Wangu Anoda Kuita Chisimba Here?
Mashoko aya ari pamusoro apa anopa ruzivo rwehuwandu pamusoro pekubatana pakati pemuganhu wehutano hwehutano uye chisimba; hazvibviri kutaurira kana mumwe munhu chaiye ane BPD achange ane chisimba. Kana munhu wako waunoda asina kuratidza chiito chekuita zvechisimba kana kukanganisa, zvinokwanisika kuti haazoiti zvechisimba. Vazhinji vevarwere veBPD havamboiti mabasa ane utsinye muupenyu hwavo.
Kune rumwe rutivi, kana iwe uri kutyisidzirwa, kunyange kana pasina chisimba chakaitika muukama hwako , unofanira kutora zvakanyanya.
Kana iwe uchinzwa wakachengeteka, zvinoita kuti mamiriro acho awedzere kusvika kune chinangwa chechisimba. Iwe unofanira kufungidzira uzviwanire iwe kunzvimbo yakachengeteka kubva kune uyo waunoda, kuti izvi zvinoreva kuwana hotera kana kugara nevanoshamwaridzana. Zvakakosha kuti iwe wakachengeteka usati waedza kubatsira shamwari yako kana nhengo yemhuri kuwana rubatsiro.
Kana wangove wakachengeteka, iwe unofambisa bheti ndewewe iwe kutsvaga rubatsiro rwechiremba kuburikidza nekurapa nemumwe muongorori anoongorora BPD. Izvi zvingakubatsira kuti uone kana hukama hwacho hunogona kuvandudzwa uye hunogona kudzivirira chisimba kuti chirege kuitika munguva yemberi. Kurapa kunogonawo kukubatsira kuti uone kana ichi ukama hunobatsira kushanda.Achiremba anogonawo kukurudzira nzira yekurapa kubatsira mubatsiri wako kupinda munzira yekudzorera.
Kugadzirira Mberi Kana Une BPD
Kunyatsoona kuti BPD haisi kungowedzera hutambudzi hwevamwe kunze kwekuzvida. Pfungwa dzekuzviuraya uye yekukuvadza iwe pachako-dzakangoita zvakakomba sezvinozokuvadza vamwe. Vamwe vanachiremba vanokurudzira kuti vanhu vazadze chirongwa chekuchengetedza kwemuganhu wehutano hwehutano . Iri urongwa hwekuchengetedza rinogona kubatsira kwete mukugadzirisa zvinogona kuita zvechisimba kana kuzviuraya asi zvinogona kukubatsira kuziva zvinokurudzira muupenyu hwako hwezuva nezuva.
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