Ita Kuonga uye Unzwe Uchifara Neupenyu

Vanhu vanoonga vanofara vanhu-izvi zvinoratidzika sehuchenjeri hunogona kuwanikwa pamusana wekusimudza nekuda kwechokwadi chaicho pachena uye kunzwa kwakanaka, asi kutsvakurudza kwekuonga kunotsigira zvakare chirevo ichi. Paunenge uine imwe nguva apo mumwe munhu anokuitira chimwe chinhu chinogutsa mwoyo wako nemanzwiro anoonga ekudziya, inogona kunzwa inoshamisa. Asi iwe haufaniri kumirira mamiriro ezvinhu kuti uwane manzwiro aya kwauri-pane zvinhu zvaunogona kuita muupenyu hwako kuti uite maitiro ekuonga iwe pachako nezviitiko zvaunenge uine muupenyu hwako, nekugadzira zviitiko zvitsva zvichaita kuunza mamwe manzwiro ekutenda kuhupenyu hwako uye kune hupenyu hweavo vakakupoteredza.

Uye nekuvonga uku kunouya zvikomborero zvakasiyana, pakati pavo kuwedzera kukurumidza kunetseka!

Izvi zvinotevera nzira dzakaratidzwa dzekuunza kuvonga kwakawanda muupenyu hwako uye hukama hwako. Mamwe acho maitiro akajeka iwe unogona kuedza iwe pachako kuti uunze nguva imwe chete yakanyanya kufara; Mamwe mavari mabasa anokwanisa kuitwa nguva dzose kuti awedzere pfungwa yakakwirira yekugara zvakanaka kune mafungiro ako. Imwe kana maviri kwavari ndiyo hurukuro huru yauchayeuka kwemakore anouya. Chero chipi zvacho chauri kutsvaga, funga zvinotevera, uye ona kuti ungawedzera sei hupenyu hwako nekutenda.

Smile!

Zvidzidzo zvinoratidza kuti chiito chisina kuchena chokuseka chinogona kuchinja maitiro aunonzwa, pasinei nokuti uri kuvemwei. Wedzera kune iyi chokwadi chokuti vanhu vazhinji vanoita kunyemwerera shure pavanoona kumwemwerera kwechiso chomumwe munhu, uye iwe unowana zvakapetwa kaviri-iwe unonzwa uri nani, uye iwe wakakombwa nenyika inoseka, vanhu vanofara.

Kunyemwerera kunogona kusunungura kushamwaridzana kwakaoma munzanga munyaya yemasekondi, kuderedza kuwanda kwepfungwa iwe unganzwa mune imwe nzvimbo yakashata yehupenyu hwevanhu.

Ramba Uine Gwaro Rokuonga

Kune zvakawanda zvakaratidza zvikomborero zvinouya nehuwandu, kusanganisira hutano huri nani uye hukuru hwekusimba. Kuchengeta bhuku rekuonga, zvisinei, rinounza humwe humwe hutete hwekubatsira.

Pakupera kwezuva rimwe nerimwe (kana kana iwe uchida kuwedzerwa mupfungwa), nyora pasi zvinhu zvitatu zvaunoonga, uye unofadza chaizvo manzwiro akanaka anouya apo iwe uchifunga nezvavo. Izvi zvakave zvichiratidzwa kusimudzira manzwiro akaora mwoyo uye kubatsira kubvisa kunetseka.

Dzidzira Mutsa Une Rudo Kufungisisa

Mutsa worudo kufungisisa ndiwo unowanikwa zvikuru uye unounza zvose zvakakosha zvekufungisisa uye zvekuwedzera tsitsi nekubatana nevamwe. Inotanga nekutarisa pamusoro pemaonero akanaka, ane rudo kumunhu, uye matavi kubva ipapo. Urwu rufungiro runogona kukubatsira kuti ufare mumanzwiro ekutenda iwe une vanhu vose vanokosha muupenyu hwako, uye kukudziridza manzwiro makuru ekuonga kune avo vangave vachinetseka.

Funga nezvekuenzanisa kwako

Pose munhu wese anogona kugumburwa kunzwa godo-mumwe munhu anosimudzirwa isu taifunga kuti takafanirwa kuva nawo, ane ukama hwakanaka kana vana vasina hanya vanoita zvakanaka isu nguva dzose taifunga kuti tingave, kana kungoita seine nguva dzose 'kushanda nesimba kuti (uye kwete kuwana) muupenyu hwedu. Kazhinji, avo vanowanzova negodo vanowanzofananidza zvakanyanya muupenyu hwavo pachavo kune zvakanakisisa kune mumwe munhu-kazhinji tinoda kutengesa upenyu hwose nemumwe munhu, asi tinoshuva kuti dai tine chinhu ichocho chavangava nacho tinoita kuti upenyu hwedu huve nani zvikuru.

Kana tichienzanisa zuva ravo rakanakisisa, unhu, kana mamiriro edu akaipa.

Kana iwe ukazviwana uchikwikwidzana nemhuka yakasvibira-maziso, iwe unogona kuzvisunungura kubva pakurwisana nekuchinja kuenzanisa kwako uye kuwedzera kuwedzera kumwe kuonga kwekusanganiswa. Kana iwe uchizviwana iwe uchida kuti une chimwe chinhu icho mumwe munhu anezvo, zviyeuchidze kuti uone zvaunazvo zvavasinazvo-kwete nenzira yekukwikwidzana, asi mune, "O hongu, ndine nhanho, zvakare!" Nzira. Uyezve, kana iwe uchizviona uchitsiva nokuti shamwari yako inoita chimwe chinhu chiri nani kudarika iwe, cherechedza zvinhu zvose muupenyu hwako apo iwe unokunda, uye ugovaonga nokuda kwavo.

Iwe unowana pfungwa-kurwisana negodo nekudada pane zvaunofarira, uye kuonga pane zvaunazvo. Nokukurumidza, izvi zvichava mararamiro emhando, uye kushuva kwako kwegodo kuchava kushoma uye kure.

Ipa Hug Uye "Ndinokutendai

Kunyatsoratidza kuvonga neshoko rinokurumidza kana kubvuma kunogona kukubatsira kuti unzwe uine hukama hwakanyanya nevamwe , uye uvabatsire kuti vanzwe vakashamwaridzana newe. Izvi zviitiko zvinokurumidza zvinogona kushandura mumanzwiro akanaka kumativi ose, pamwe chete nehukama hwakasimba uye zvose zvezvikomborero zvinouya nazvo.

Ronga Kuratidza Kuonga Kushanyirwa

Vanhu vangani vakakuitira mutsa muhupenyu hwenyu-hukama hwakashandura mamiriro ako, wakakupa chimwe chinhu chinokosha kana uchichida, kana kuti wakakubatsira nenzira imwe? Ndeipi nguva yekupedzisira iwe wataurira mumwe wevanhu ava kuti wakavonga zvakadini ivo nezvavakakuitira, uye kuti yakakubatsira sei muupenyu hwako? Kunyora tsamba yekuonga uye kuinunura-ndeapi mafungiro akanaka emapfungwa anotaura se "tsamba yekuonga" uye "kuvonga kushanyira" -nogona kuunza manzwiro akanaka kune vanhu vaunofarira, uye kunyange mafungiro akanaka kune iwe! Icho chiito chikuru chinounza zvikomborero zvakakura.